Maleficent13
<font color=blue>Heh Heh, you're all gonna die<br>
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Background: Saturday night, it is decided that my SO and I will go to my SO's parents on Sunday. I am having lunch at MY mom's, so it will be after that. He has to call his mom Sunday morning to work out details and then he will call me.
My SO called me at 10am on Sunday, while I was out mowing my grass. When I came back in, I got the message and called him back. He asked what was up and I said I had just gotten done mowing. I asked what was up with him, and he said "nothing". I asked why he called. He didn't answer. I asked if anything was going on. He said no. His tone implied I was asking dumb questions. I said "Sorry; I guess I just assumed that when someone calls me and leaves me a message asking me to call him back, he must have something he wants to tell me." Then I ask, "Have you talked to your Mom today?" He says yes. No elucidation, just "yes". I say, "And?" "And what?" he replies.
So, I say, "Ok, I think we should just hang up now and start over later. This conversation isn't working for me."
He responds, "Well, if you would just ask what you wanted to know, we wouldn't have this problem."
Then he proceeds to tell me that he's going to his Mom's at 12:30. I say, "Oh, okay. Did you just want to get together later then?" He says, "You're not coming with me?" I respond, "Well, didn't I tell you last night I was going to my mom's for lunch?" He says yes. I then say, "Well, I can't be in two places at once, can I?" He gets mad, we say some snippy things, and we hang up.
Is it ME? I am so confused about what happened here!!
Sorry, PD - long post -
My SO called me at 10am on Sunday, while I was out mowing my grass. When I came back in, I got the message and called him back. He asked what was up and I said I had just gotten done mowing. I asked what was up with him, and he said "nothing". I asked why he called. He didn't answer. I asked if anything was going on. He said no. His tone implied I was asking dumb questions. I said "Sorry; I guess I just assumed that when someone calls me and leaves me a message asking me to call him back, he must have something he wants to tell me." Then I ask, "Have you talked to your Mom today?" He says yes. No elucidation, just "yes". I say, "And?" "And what?" he replies.
So, I say, "Ok, I think we should just hang up now and start over later. This conversation isn't working for me."
He responds, "Well, if you would just ask what you wanted to know, we wouldn't have this problem."
Then he proceeds to tell me that he's going to his Mom's at 12:30. I say, "Oh, okay. Did you just want to get together later then?" He says, "You're not coming with me?" I respond, "Well, didn't I tell you last night I was going to my mom's for lunch?" He says yes. I then say, "Well, I can't be in two places at once, can I?" He gets mad, we say some snippy things, and we hang up.
Is it ME? I am so confused about what happened here!!
Sorry, PD - long post -
