Inspired by SerenaOne's thread....
Thoughts on young childrens birthday parties & RSVP's:
If you get an invitation to a childs birthday party, please take a moment to RSVP as soon as you can, whether you plan to attend or not. It creates unnecessary worry on the parent throwing their child a party to imagine nobody attending, or not to know how much food or how many party favors to buy. One new pre-school mom asked me if we go to all the parties were invited to. I told her we cant make it to all, but we try to attend as many as we can. Even if youre not close with the child or their family, its still nice to attend sometimes they dont have a lot of close friends, and your being there makes a difference. Imagine its your own childs party and how much it means to them and to you to have friends and classmates share their special day. It sometimes gets tiresome, but I try to think of these parties as a nice time to get to know other parents. If your childs class is large, with several birthdays close together, you might consider (or suggest) combining a party with another child. Other parents will surely appreciate it! If gifts ($$) become an issue, try Marshalls or Ross or the bargain book aisle at a book store. Kids dont care how much the gift costs the most fun is unwrapping it! If nap time is an issue, try to be flexible. Its impossible for a parent to plan around every childs nap, and your child will likely survive a slight change in schedule. Its inevitable that youll have to miss a few parties, but next time you receive an invitation, before you toss it aside without a second thought, consider what it means to the child and parent who invited you.
Thoughts on young childrens birthday parties & RSVP's:
If you get an invitation to a childs birthday party, please take a moment to RSVP as soon as you can, whether you plan to attend or not. It creates unnecessary worry on the parent throwing their child a party to imagine nobody attending, or not to know how much food or how many party favors to buy. One new pre-school mom asked me if we go to all the parties were invited to. I told her we cant make it to all, but we try to attend as many as we can. Even if youre not close with the child or their family, its still nice to attend sometimes they dont have a lot of close friends, and your being there makes a difference. Imagine its your own childs party and how much it means to them and to you to have friends and classmates share their special day. It sometimes gets tiresome, but I try to think of these parties as a nice time to get to know other parents. If your childs class is large, with several birthdays close together, you might consider (or suggest) combining a party with another child. Other parents will surely appreciate it! If gifts ($$) become an issue, try Marshalls or Ross or the bargain book aisle at a book store. Kids dont care how much the gift costs the most fun is unwrapping it! If nap time is an issue, try to be flexible. Its impossible for a parent to plan around every childs nap, and your child will likely survive a slight change in schedule. Its inevitable that youll have to miss a few parties, but next time you receive an invitation, before you toss it aside without a second thought, consider what it means to the child and parent who invited you.