Very true. Of those I've tried, in the snow, Subaru (Outback, specifically) is the best, but the BMW 4WD system isn't bad. I can't say as many good things about some of the American brands.
My Jeep has the Selec-Trac transfer case: Shift on the fly, choice of 2WD, PT 4WD, FT 4X4 low or high. I've never seen a more capable system.
I read a study a few years ago that suggested that 4WD vehicles were actually in more accidents in bad weather than other vehicles. If that seems odd, consider the reason. The study found that 4WD vehicles were safer to operate in most conditions (ice was the equalizer), but that drivers felt safer in 4WD vehicles, so drove with less care.
I think that you've arrived at an incorrect conclusion.
A few weeks ago, we got half a dozen inches of snow on a bed of ice. As is my habit, I still drove to work. I also drove my family to church and dinner and the movies. As we were out and about, I noticed that almost all of the private vehicles on the road were SUVs. (I saw three vehicles that had gotten out of control; two ditched and one was smashed into a guardrail. All three of these vehicles were cars.)
This morning as I drove to work on dry roads, I noted that the majority of vehicles on the interstate were cars.
The conclusion that this leads me to is that people are more likely to drive SUVs if they go out on snowy days. I therefore hypothesize that a higher percentage of vehicles driving in bad weather are 4WD. Therefore, the very fact that more 4WDs have accidents on bad weather is a likely a result of a much greater percentage of 4WDs being on the road during this weather, not a testiment for or against the capability of these vehicles.
The conclusion - 4WD vehicles are only safer if the driver operates the vehicle as cautiously as they would another vehicle.
No one has made any statement contrary to this.
Personally, I have found FWD vehicles to handle every bit as effectively in the snow as 4WDs...
Really? I can drive through nine inches of snow. More if it's packed.
I found some points here relevent to whats being discussed.
http://www.4x4abc.com/jeep101/safe.html
4WD/AWD safety - Is 4WD/AWD safer on snow and ice?
I am assuming that you want 4WD/AWD for safety on snow and ice. 4WD/AWD systems provide some but not much added safety! Only the convenience, that you don't have spinning tires when starting - or the convenience to get started where a 2WD would not be able to get going. Or the convenience to get up a snowy pass without spinning tires or without mounting chains.
However, once moving the physics for all vehicles are equal. 1WD, 2WD, 4WD, 6WD etc.
All motor vehicles need traction for safe steering - 4WD/AWD does not provide extra traction for steering.
All cars need traction for safe braking - 4WD/AWD does not provide extra traction for braking.
In that sense 2WD is "safer" - it leaves you stranded early and keeps you out of trouble. The trouble only 4WD/AWD owners might get into.
The problem is, that most 4WD/AWD owners think they operate a safer system. Once moving (on any slippery stuff) they drive faster than they should and not as carefully and slowly as they would in a 2WD. Much more 4WD vehicles are involved in accidents on snow and ice than 2WD.
Since snow and ice provide only marginal traction (so marginal that you need 4WD/AWD to start moving) and not enough lateral force can be created to support the tires during a turn, they slip sideways and the vehicle falls off the road. 4WD does not prevent that. 4WD is not involved in the steering part of driving.
Since snow and ice provide only marginal traction (so marginal that you need 4WD to start moving) not enough traction is available for safely stopping the car. Neither ABS nor 4WD helps you to stop the car. 4WD is not involved in the braking part of driving at all and ABS only keeps the tires from locking up. Locking or not locking has almost no influence on the stopping distance.
Your entire argument is based on the premise that 'perfect' ice is being driven upon (so marginal that you need 4WD to start moving) and that 4WD drivers always drive too fast.
The simple fact is this: When I reasonable drive my Jeep in the ice and snow, I maintain control and my wheels never spin. They don't spin or slide when going around a corner, even if it is downhill. They don't spin when going uphill, even when making a sharp turn at the top of a steep hill. Most 2WD vehicles cannot accomplish this.
My 4X4 also has the ability to 'creep'. I can put the vehicle into 4WD low and slowly decend or ascend that icy hill that a 2WD car cannot hope to travel.
And by the way, when you own a part time 4WD vehicle, ABS does not even work anymore when you shift into 4WD.
This is simply untrue.
If I mash my brakes on a slippy surface, I can feel the ABS working. This is true whether I am in 2WD, PT 4WD, FT 4WD low, or FT 4WD high. (I've never tried it with the transfer case in neutral, but I have no reason to believe that teh ABS wouldn't work then also.) You see, the ABS system has no way of knowing whether the transfer case is in 4WD. It's only job is to stop the wheels from locking up. It could care less if that wheel is currently a 'drive' wheel, or not.
Only chains will make driving on ice and snow significantly safer!
For some reason, you keep posting 'ice and snow' as if they are the same beast. Ice is slippy. Snow, on the other hand, can provide considerable traction.