Proposing on a Budget

I haven't read the replies yet but wonder why he needs to plan anything more than just being in MK? I know proposals (and even promposals) are a big to-do now, but it's the future that counts imo. DH and I have been married almost 20 years and he proposed by asking if I wanted to go ring shopping over the weekend. May not have been hip, but it was all I needed to say yes. (Sorry if I am being a Debbie Downer)

I think wedding proposals have always been a "big to do". Even my dh, who at the time was far from sentimental and romantic even planned something special. That was over 20 years ago too (see the future did count).
I don't think its required to go over the top elaborate, but I think something special is warranted when asking someone to marry them. A nice dinner, or a quiet spot in MK, or somewhere that has meaning to the couple. It is a significant point in a relationship and IMO does require a little more thought than asking an everyday kind of question like do you want to go shopping.
 
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Cinderella's wishing well is in the park, usually empty and wouldn't cost anything extra. Plus, super romantic. Make a wish for a magical future together, get down on one knee. Beautiful!
 
We saw a man propose by the fountains in France at Epcot. It was at night and the lights were beautiful. As soon as he knelt down, people stopped and watched. It was magical to be a bystander and had to be extra special for the couple.
 
As a newly engaged person, it doesn't have to be anything expensive as long as it is heartfelt.
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I can guarantee you that if she's a Disney fan, she'll be thrilled with any proposal in Magic Kingdom!
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He carried the ring around with him that whole day...He wasn't sure where or when but knew it was going to be that trip and I think that day.
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As someone who was recently proposed to at a Disney park I can 100% say that you do not need to spend anything extra to make it special. We recently took our first trip to Paris, which (of course) included several days at Disneyland Paris. I had no idea at all that he had bought a ring before we left. He carried it with him on his person and planned to propose the first day at the parks, but had no specific plan in mind. He figured he would know when it was right. He did and it was perfect and very him.

Early in the day we were at Disney Studios and in a shop near Ratatouille (Chez Marianne) we saw a few souvenirs we wanted to buy, including a small Faberge style egg that was painted with Disney characters and opened up to have a small sparkly Eiffel Tower inside, but decided to return at the end of the day so as not to carry them with us all day. The Studios park closed at 7, so we made our purchases and then went over to the Disneyland park for the rest of the evening. We had a muffin and hot chocolate, wandered around main street taking pictures and then got some popcorn in a souvenir bucket with a neck strap (we argued about this, because I said how are we going to take this bucket home in our suitcase, but ended up getting it).

We left the hub and were walking toward Adventureland munching on our popcorn with frozen fingers (gloves off, freezing). We browsed through a small shop called La Girafe Curieuse and then wandered behind the store to a small area with a foot bridge, a waterfall and hanging lanterns. There was no one else back here (we discovered later it is a character meet and greet during the day). He suggested that we sit down for a few minutes and just enjoy the space and our popcorn. I readily agreed and was just looking all around taking it in (first time at Disneyland Paris). He is beside me digging in the bag with our purchases and telling me that he wanted to make sure the store clerk had wrapped the egg well so it wouldn't break. I am paying him no attention at all. He then tells me that the egg is already broken. I assume he is joking and say no it isn't and don't even look at him. He then insists it is, and now I am concerned and turn to him. He says the Eiffel tower inside has broken off and hands me the egg closed. I open the egg and this is the view that awaited me.

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He told me later that he had originally thought that maybe he should wait and do it at the Eiffel Tower, but knew that with my love of Disney that I would prefer to get engaged there. When he saw the egg he knew it would be perfect as a "ring box" and was just waiting till he found a lovely place away from crowds (he knows me and I would NOT have wanted a spectacle with lots of people seeing).
 

My step daughter got engaged at CBR on the beach. Doesn't have to cost extra to ask someone to marry you. My H proposed in the living room.
I saw photos of a proposal on the Poly beach during fireworks. The guy was an amateur photographer and her set up his camera to 'capture the fireworks' but really to capture the proposal, then proposed. Totally gorgeous!
 
Thanks everyone for the suggestions. Magic Kingdom does not have any significance other than the bride to be loves Disney!! lol. All things Disney! I tried to get reservations at CRT (My treat) but no such luck with a reservation.
Keep trying for that ADR. People cancel all the time!
 
I think wedding proposals have always been a "big to do". Even my dh, who at the time was far from sentimental and romantic even planned something special. That was over 20 years ago too (see the future did count).
I don't think its required to go over the top elaborate, but I think something special is warranted when asking someone to marry them. A nice dinner, or a quiet spot in MK, or somewhere that has meaning to the couple. It is a significant point in a relationship and IMO does require a little more thought than asking an everyday kind of question like do you want to go shopping.
Oh, he put thought into it. He initially was going to buy a ring but then his sister convinced him to let me be involved, to choose it together. I loved that idea and to me, it was special. YMMV.
 
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Oh, he put thought into it. He initially was going to buy a ring but then his sister convinced him to let me be involved, to choose it together. I loved that idea and to me, it was special. YMMY.

I'm sure your proposal was special to you, but I thought your post came across as a little sanctimonious because of how your dh didn't need to do anything other than some everyday thing.
 
I'm sure your proposal was special to you, but I thought your post came across as a little sanctimonious because of how your dh didn't need to do anything other than some everyday thing.
I didn't mean it to be. I was mostly responding to the OP whose brother felt like he needed to do more than MK which is already magical. Also, I think after years of marriage, perspective just changes.
 
I have to agree, it's more about the "who" than the "how". But, putting a little thought into finding a special time and/or spot is nice. In my case, my DH made me a fancy lunch in my apartment, while I was at weekend training for work. Maybe not what some would consider special, but it suited us (and our budget at the time).
 
We had hot chocolate, at night, in front of his parents' newly put up Christmas tree (we were visiting over the Thanksgiving break). We were poor college/law students and it was perfect (he had planned to have us ride the trolley up in Pittsburgh and weather interfered...and I think that was a blessing b/c we got to actually enjoy the moments ourselves without gawkers:))...

My aquamarine ring with 2 tiny diamonds was a passed down family ring from his family bought during the great Depression and I treasure it (I wore it til our wedding and then my mom gave me a replacement with the same semi-precious stones, so I could save the ring to pass down for our boys if they want).

Sometimes the value of things is from the meaning, not the money...

If it were me, I'd go to the Poly beach at night...maybe right before fireworks...somewhere away from the crowds...
 

That is so pretty. My DH got a on sale valentines bear with the year 1999 on it for the year he proposed. He proposed in March 1999 so it wasn't like he had the bear for months. But the carried it all around that day. The bear was holding a long stem rose that was actually a ring box. They are both in my attic...I think!
 












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