Problems

[Sparx]

To what? Friends?

Sorry... just kinda confused.

to everything.

it really doesn't matter in almost any situation.

 

[MuNkY]

to everything.

it really doesn't matter in almost any situation.

It always helps though to have friends who are on a similar maturity level though.

 

[Gone Disney]

your tellin me.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Hang out with other people. But think of your current friends, they're people, they have feelings. Be nice about it.

 

[CastawayJ]

i hate these people if they are anything like charlie(guy at school who calls me danial green(?) and constantly harass me(in more than one way) same for his friends).

the sad thing is, they think its funny

 

[tinkerbell12]

i hate these people if they are anything like charlie(guy at school who calls me danial green(?) and constantly harass me(in more than one way) same for his friends).

the sad thing is, they think its funny

Stand up for yourself.

Look mean.
Look strong.
Look agressive.
Look like you will not tolerate it.

Stand up straight.
Don't look at the ground, keep your head up.
Make eye contact.

Tell them you will not tolerate it.
Walk away. Do not let them fire back.

 

[MuNkY]

Stand up for yourself.

Look mean.
Look strong.
Look agressive.
Look like you will not tolerate it.

Stand up straight.
Don't look at the ground, keep your head up.
Make eye contact.

Tell them you will not tolerate it.
Walk away. Do not let them fire back.

QFE

 

[minnie_2006]

What do you mean by immature? Because me and my friends laugh at anything, we laugh too easily! Would you count that as immature? Because for me that's more like just being very happy people - it's good to laugh! For me, being immature is when you lie, when you backstab, when you brag or boast, when you're jealous, when you're unkind or not loyal - qualities like those are what I think makes a person immature.
But anyway for your situation - why not try and see the good qualities in your friends? There must be something you like about your friends that made you start hanging out with them - focus on that . If that doesn't work, just talk to them and say something like, you're great friends and I love you for that but sometimes I find it hard to fit in because I'm different to you guys - something along those lines. And see what they say, that's what I would do anyway. Honesty is the best policy!

Woooah that was a cheesy post, I feel like a mum posting this! But hey, I hope it all works out!

 

[StitchfansJr]

alright i have this "friends" who are immature. i dont know if its my fault. i have always been really mature for my age. wat should i do?

You aren't alone, Gone Disney. I have the same problem too. Whenever they we get in trouble I'm always captioned the "mature" one. Even between my sister and I. I'm 12, she's 26. I'm more maturer than her.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

Don't we all?

Heck my friends are the most immature people I know. That's what makes them my friends.

 

[Gone Disney]

i guess

 

[McBritIsBack]

That's for sure!

 

[Gone Disney]

alright?

 

[pigletgirl]

Just lighten up. Then maybe you'll be laughing with them. It never hurts.

 

[Gone Disney]

alright, we can make this thread go away now

 

[topaz_onyx]

I would talk them.Maybe be like "Can you please be serious sometimes" or something.

I try that with my immature friends, but, it doesn't usually work on the long term, I don't know what to do

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I try that with my immature friends, but, it doesn't usually work on the long term, I don't know what to do

Aw Maybe sit down with them and be like Hey you need to try to be serious every once in awhile because Im trying to tell you something serious and it's like you don't care or something along those line's maybe?

Thats what I would do.

 

[AngienLuLu]

Omg, my friends are the most immature people around.

I don't see how you could be the cause of your friend's immaturity.

If it really is bothering you, get new friends.

Or just deal with it.

 

[McBritIsBack]

Maybe don't just "deal with it." You should probably talk to them, (and yes my friends are immature too)and if they are ur real friends they'll understand and if they don't; then yea you should just get new ones.

 

[Gone Disney]

ok ill get new ones because they can not stop being immature.(it would be impossible!)

some of them(2) are not though.