Private Place for Gay Couple to Kiss?

[PrinceCharming28]

My boyfriend and I are going to Disneyland sometime in the future (near future, I hope), and we want to know where appropriate places to hold hand and stuff are. It's a family environment and many people don't think of gay couples as "family friendly". We don't have to experience weird looks or bigotry from other guests, so we want a private place to show affection. And nothing more than hand holding and maybe a kiss or two. Anything more than that belongs at the hotel. I've been to Disneyland 5 times before, but I can't recall any private places. Besides on rides like Peter Pan, the most private I can think of is Snow White's Wishing Well but even that gets frequent visitors. Any help?

 

[MICKEYFIL]

Vancouver here as well.

I have no idea why this is really a concern and personally can't think of anything weirdier than trying to sneak away to hold your significant others hand or give them a kiss, but after just getting back I can't really think of too many private places other than a few rides like Peter Pan or maybe Ariel's ride.

 

[audrey2580]

Its a free country so I say kiss away!

 

[lisakramer]

Amen! Don't make out, but enjoy yourselves like any straight couple!!

 

[Gatordude]

Don't sweat it!


Go with what feels comfortable to you and enjoy you and your boyfriends time together.

 

[tinkermomma]

Agreed. have a fun, romantic time.

It sounds like you two will be more respectful than those teenagers that make out through the entire line. So you're way ahead of the game.

My husband and I have a kid now so we rarely sneak kisses in public places anymore but if we were going to, any dark ride will do

 

[Freesia123]

I get where you're coming from. There are still a lot of people uncomfortable with gay partners showing public affection. There are also many people offended by public breast feeding. I think it's terrible that you have to feel uncomfortable to show affection to the one you love in public

The more people see it the more they'll get used to it. I think the same rules apply as for opposite sex couples. Handholding, little pecks ok. Groping and frenching no.

If you aren't comfortable though, that's ok! You are entitled to be discrete and private! I'd think Sitting at a bench where you are t at eye level would be a good place. Also standing at any railing with your back to the crowd would be a discrete place as well.

I'm sorry that other people make you uncomfortable. In fifty years people will look back and see what idiots they were to be Unaccepting.

 

[lalasmama]

I think holding hands and a kiss here and there are completely appropriate wherever you are. I mean, it's not like you're looking for a place to suck face (in which case, gay or not, I'd say it was inappropriate!). I've never considered it to be un-family-friendly to be affectionate in low-key ways, no matter who is involved.

Not that it's the same thing, but the same idea--women have been told to hide while they nurse their babies, that it's inappropriate to do out in public. Thanks to those willing to "buck" tradition, it's now common--and legally protected--to breastfeed anywhere, and it's largely accepted. A mom at Disneyland will barely command a glance. I'd try to remember things like that when you share a quick kiss, or hold hands around others--you are helping people see it as a normal, natural show of affection, not as something to be hidden, or denied.

If you just want some quiet places because you would be more comfortable showing affection, I believe the area back around the petting zoo tends to be quieter. I remember something about the bottom level of the Hungry Bear restaurant can be quieter as well. I always like the staircase in New Orleans Square. Oh, and don't forget Aladdin's Oasis--when Jasmine isn't there, no one else goes over there, and it's a nice little get-away.

Have fun!

 

[sherilaine]

There is nothing wrong with holding hands and a kiss here or there - my DH and I held hands and every now and then I'd give him a hug or we'd give each other a kiss - this is normal! I'd say act like you would in any other public place.

It is unfortunate you'd think to have to ask though, but I guess that is the reality - not everyone is comfortable - but they are never to become comfortable if gay people think they have to hide to hold hands!!

 

[DLgal]

Having been to Disneyland well over 300 times, I can honestly tell you that gay couples holding hands and sharing the occasional peck on the cheek, or kiss on the lips is no big deal. I would base your behavior on your comfort level, obviously, but if straight couples are holding hands and sharing occasional kisses wherever, then you should feel free to do so as well. There is nothing un-family friendly about gay couples being affectionate with each other and Disneyland is quite supportive of this reality.

 

[kappyfamily]

Yep agree with everyone else. You should be able to hold his hand and give a quick kiss whenever and wherever you want. I had a teenage guy and gal going at it in front of us in line at space mountain and I finally said, "do you two mind?". Have fun and if someone has a problem with it they can walk the other way.....

 

[lovebug33]

I agree with the pp that you need to break people out of their shell. People have different lifestyles and so what if yours does not conform to theirs. I don't see anything wrong with ANYBODY holding hands or smooching a little here or there: gay or straight, mixed race, teenagers, etc. I do have an issue when it is more than that. I am really not into watching people make out at DL, no matter your orientation or age.

 

[KateDrake]

I agree with most of the PPs here. Holding hands and a peck or two are not even going to draw a second glance. Disney is a really LGBT friendly company, and I think that is reflected in the general culture of the parks. In fact, that's one of the reasons we love spending our vacation dollars with them! It's a cause we firmly support!

That said, I can understand how you might feel a bit uncomfortable in public. My husband is very lovey, and is always trying to sneak kisses, etc. I'm just not as mooshy I guess, and I feel a bit uncomfortable kissing in public. (This is after 10 years of marriage, so you'd think I'd be over it by now!) So I am very much in the holding hands, quick peck club! I think if you do the same, you will be fine.

Some other ideas, if you want to steal a kiss for a photo, etc. would be near Snow White's wishing well. That area can often be rather private. Also arriving at rope drop, you'll be able to get some great pics outside the castle before the park gets too crowded. That's nice simply because you won't have as many people in your photo! And the Photopass photographers would be happy to snap a few of you as well. Other than that, any dark ride, corner table at a restaurant, etc. make for great romantic spots!

Hope you guys have a great time! I think you'll be surprised at the level of support you receive. You have every right to happiness!

 

[Purrkins]

Everywhere and anywhere.

Have a great trip!

 

[srferson]

It's been a while since I've been to DL. So I'm afraid I don't have any good suggestions there.

While I don't want to push anyone to do something that makes them uncomfortable, I'd like to point something out. Yes, there may be people who are uncomfortable with it. But there are also parents out there teaching their children that good people are good people and love is love, and that things like race and gender don't change that. And I imagine they'd be quite happy for their kids to see a nice, respectful couple exemplifying that.

You know what they say. Be the change you want to see.

 

[pixiewings71]

Meh, hold hands, kiss, just don't grope or be gross about it and you'll be fine. lol If you need to be alone just keep your eyes open as you wander and you'll find a spot or two.
PP suggested the Court of Angels, that's such a pretty spot! Or back at the Hungry Bear, or back where the FP machines for the holiday version of HM, dark rides, you'll find spots.

 

[srferson]

If you just want some quiet places because you would be more comfortable showing affection, I believe the area back around the petting zoo tends to be quieter.

As long as no one turns it into the heavy petting zoo.

 

[lalasmama]

As long as no one turns it into the heavy petting zoo.

Let's be fair--anywhere around Disneyland where there are hormonal teenagers there seems to be a heavy petting zoo! I'd welcome a same-sex couple sharing a little smooch if it meant I wouldn't have to ask teenagers to keep to themselves!

 

[srferson]

Let's be fair--anywhere around Disneyland where there are hormonal teenagers there seems to be a heavy petting zoo!

Never have truer words been written.

 

[Airb330]

I agree with the pp that you need to break people out of their shell. People have different lifestyles and so what if yours does not conform to theirs. I don't see anything wrong with ANYBODY holding hands or smooching a little here or there: gay or straight, mixed race, teenagers, etc. I do have an issue when it is more than that. I am really not into watching people make out at DL, no matter your orientation or age.

Agreed and may I say this thread really makes me feel good about our society. This would have been a hotly debated topic on DIS when I first joined (at least in the WDW section).

My husband and I (I'm a guy)were just at DL last week. I noticed some same-sex hand holding and PDA. We're not very affectionate in public, but I wouldn't have thought twice to show some affection if it struck us. California is just more tolerant I suppose.

Luckily we were spared from seeing any making out from anyone, including grad night teens.