Prego MOH?!

[OceanGdss]

bahhhhhhhhhh i missed the drama..someone pm me!!

dude! me too!! lol. Apparently we started something??

Anyhow, regardless of what I missed (and i was on the boards no less than 5 hours today!! lol) thank you ALL for your support. Both to me and PrincessBride. As mentioned, it is an emotional situation. But if I had to decide between the birth of a new little neice/nephew or my wedding, I would gladly march into a courthouse tomorrow to get married and put ALL my energy/time/money on my new family member. My sister's first daughter is the love of my life! I love her as if she were my own. That is the reason why I would be dissapointed if my sister and neice weren't able to be there for my wedding. Not because of some selfish need for the perfect amount of attendants, or because I'm worried about who will throw the rose petals down the aisle, but because I WANT them there, I want them to share in this very very special day. (my first thought after getting engaged wasn't "what dress will I wear?" it was "omg..how can I turn this into an opportunity to make my neice feel like a princess??") And I WANT to share in the special day that my possibly new neice/nephew comes into the world.
Anyhow..went off on a tangent there...either way, Thank you all for your support. I know whatever happens is for a reason and I view anything as a blessing.

And for PrincessBride, I have no idea what was said about her, but I support her and everything she does

ok..im done....

 

[dunbarfamily]

Sorry to jump in, since I'm not a DisneyBride, but I wish I would've been. It honestly didn't cross my mind at the time

When I saw the title Prego, I just had to read.

I jsut wanted to tell you that I hope everything works out for you and your sister. May you have a beautiful wedding and a beautiful neice or nephew.

As a side note, please tell your sis and BIL thank you for all of their sacrifices they have made for our great country! May they conceive quickly!

 

[gradtchr]

Good luck with your decision. It's really difficult when family issues like that come up when there is so much excitement going on! Of course the EEEK I want my family there stuff comes out too which is so hard when you have such mixed emotions. HUGS!

When I got married I had a different but stressful situation going on and totally did not know what to do. My Grandfather fell extremely ill the month prior to my wedding and was not doing good at all. My DH and I talked about rescheduling but with the families support we were told to keep going forward with our plans. As the time got closer my Grandfather got worse and 9 days before my wedding he passed away and the funeral was 7 days before. The family who was able to attend the wedding were thrilled to be there because it gave them something positive to look forward to. The family who had to cancel their flights couldn't wait to hear all about it.

So for you and your family they will have two positive things to look forward to, your wedding and potentially a new family member! How cool is that! Talk it out all you need to and ignore the rude ones.

 

[PrincessBride010103]

dude! me too!! lol. Apparently we started something??

Anyhow, regardless of what I missed (and i was on the boards no less than 5 hours today!! lol) thank you ALL for your support. Both to me and PrincessBride. As mentioned, it is an emotional situation. But if I had to decide between the birth of a new little neice/nephew or my wedding, I would gladly march into a courthouse tomorrow to get married and put ALL my energy/time/money on my new family member. My sister's first daughter is the love of my life! I love her as if she were my own. That is the reason why I would be dissapointed if my sister and neice weren't able to be there for my wedding. Not because of some selfish need for the perfect amount of attendants, or because I'm worried about who will throw the rose petals down the aisle, but because I WANT them there, I want them to share in this very very special day. (my first thought after getting engaged wasn't "what dress will I wear?" it was "omg..how can I turn this into an opportunity to make my neice feel like a princess??") And I WANT to share in the special day that my possibly new neice/nephew comes into the world.
Anyhow..went off on a tangent there...either way, Thank you all for your support. I know whatever happens is for a reason and I view anything as a blessing.

And for PrincessBride, I have no idea what was said about her, but I support her and everything she does

ok..im done....

awwwwww
something smart was probably said about me being knocked up....
oh well...welcome to 2008

 

[PrincessBride010103]

i love amanda!

that bm dress is great! it's SO MUCH BETTER than a lot of the other maternity dresses out there for bm's!

love you too caryn!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[twiu]

Ha ha! I actually read the posts. It was someone saying how selfish we were and blah blah. I read it and ignored it. Whatever. cpprincess - thanks for backing us up.

Anyway, just so you know... my sis went to her doctor today. He is going to do a scheduled csection 12 days prior to her due date. On my pj, I was told by other moms who've had csections that this was too soon, but her doctor seems comfortable with her traveling to Orlando. She will have the baby on Tuesday, get out of the hospital on Thursday, and come to Orlando either Friday or Saturday (my wedding is on Sunday). It is kinda soon but since they live in Miami - he said it shouldn't be a problem. She might have to be in a wheelchair during the ceremony but that's fine. I'm just happy she'll be there. She won't party like a rock star like I hoped she would - but I'm just ecstatic that she'll be there.

Oceangdss - it all works out. Let's hope she can have this baby and get pregnant. As I see, you live in Ocala ... that's not far. Anything is possible. She can always have a scheduled csection and she can be there (exhausted and with staples on her belly, but there).

And whatever them mean people said (I don't remember)... you are not being selfish. We're just talking like we would to our girlfriends, except here we're all in the same boat of being a bit stressed out and overwhelmed with wedding planning.

Thanks fellow disbride for the support and understanding. I'll make sure I post pics of my exhausted sister / Matron of HOnor and her 5 day old baby. Oh and I was more than willing to move my wedding date if the doctor had said it was not possible. So there!

 

[KQAN]

PrincessBride010103 I just sent you a PM.

Some fool made a couple posts that were rude and uncalled for about both you and Oceangdss...you can imagine the gist of it. Totally unnecessary!

Back to your regularly scheduled thread (haha, lurkyloo lives on in spirit!)...

 

[disneychickforever]

They are not complaining. They are simply amazing women who are venting out some issues. If you notice, they actually are supportive of their family members. Please read the whole thread before making such a statement.

 

[Fantasia Sam]

Honestly I just love how supportive everyone here is

I would suggest though that no-one answers to posters who clearly are just posting in this forum or to threads like this to get a rise, albeit they think they have a point, just report the post and it will be dealt with.

BTW can I also put my hand up as one who loves that Maternity MoH gown

 

[OceanGdss]

BTW can I also put my hand up as one who loves that Maternity MoH gown

that bm dress is great! it's SO MUCH BETTER than a lot of the other maternity dresses out there for bm's!

Oceangdss that MOH dress is gorgeous - I hope that your sister is able to celebrate with you and you with her. I wish you both the best in what is surely a happy if emotional time.
Christine

Great maternity dress!! You have good taste

I'm so glad all of you like that dress. The hilarious part of that dress is that about 2 seconds after my DS emailed me and told me she might be pregnant on my wedding day I just typed in "maternity bridesmaid dress" into Google and that was one of the first that popped up! I just saved it to email her an example...no thought was put into the design at all..it was simply an example to say to her "hey! Maternity bridesmaid dresses DO exist!!" And now its popular!! Guess it was a matter of luck to find it (and it IS the one we will use if we need it..it IS gorgeous after all lol)

 

[Keira1387]

Ok, so I didn't think I was going to be in this boat... but it looks like I am. One of my bm is preggers! Like you girls were saying I am very happy for her! She has previously had 2 miscarriages, and we are praying that this will be a successful pregnancy.But then of course the worrying begins. The dresses have already been ordered. The dress fits her perfect in the waist, and when we actually get married she is going to be 8 1/2 months along. Not really sure what to do. Haven't really had a chance to talk to her about what she wants to do, but I guess we will wait and see!

 

[PrincessBride010103]

is it baby season or what!!!!!!!

 

[Keira1387]

I know!!! I'm not drinking the water!!!!

 

[OceanGdss]

I know!!! I'm not drinking the water!!!!

haha!!! The funny thing is when I saw your name and then the "so I didn't think I was going to be in this boat... but it looks like I am" I was like "oh dear me...she's pregnant!" Thats it PrincessBride....keep your water over there!!!

 

[PrincessBride010103]

I know!!! I'm not drinking the water!!!!

no more water for you for 5 months!!!!!

 

[PrincessBride010103]

ill keep all the water til everyone's married!! lol!!

 

[Keira1387]

Haha... I can't afford to get pregnant! My dress barely fits now! I would have to borrow Amanda's table cloth to wear down the isle. The funny part is the girl that would replace my current BM if SHE choices to step down is having a baby in 2 months. Everyone is having babies!!!

 

[chipscinderelly]

Oh how exciting to have a wedding and a new baby!!!

twiu - yeah for a resolution

OceanGdss - great dress!

Keira1387 - holy cow you too?

For those of you who have bm's that are pregnant one thing to consider for you (long term not now as a lot can change) is that depending on how their pregnancy goes their OB may not let them travel that close to their due date. I'm sure short distances will be fine, just wanted to let you know that they probably are not thinking that and would be very upset if it happened. We are due in July and our OB has said that end of May is it for going out of town (we live in DFW area, family in Chicago and Iowa), however, I think if it was a wedding we were in the answer MIGHT be different. A good friend of mine was able to take her medical file with her for a wedding at 8 months just in case... oh a Disney first - wedding then half of the bridal party to Celebration for a Disney baby!!!

 

[OceanGdss]

oh a Disney first - wedding then half of the bridal party to Celebration for a Disney baby!!!

I can see the inviation now:

"Reception to follow at Celebration Regional Medical Center"

 

[sajilunni]

Get this story that happened to one of my friends when we lived in Indianapolis. Her only sister was getting married in Long Island at a venue that had to be booked 18 months in advance. They had been planning the wedding together for a long time. They knew that they were cutting it close logistically because her husband's medical residency ends on June 30 and the wedding was on July 11, so they had to move to New Jersey with twin toddler boys and get all the wedding festivities organized during that time. Then she accidently gets pregnant (although with her being a nurse and her husband being a urologist, you would have thought they would understand how the whole thing works ) and finds out her due date is July 13. She calls me up crying in absolute hysterics. She ended up on her knees begging her OB to promise to induce her 3 weeks ahead of time, and he finally agreed. But still, she managed to pack up a house, move to New Jersey with a newborn and the twins, and be there for her sister. It nearly drove her insane, but she did it. I don't know if I could have done it in the same situation. Most doctors don't like to induce, but will do it if you really insist.

I wish you and your sister both the very best of luck!
Jil