Pre-RSVP wordings?

[CityGirlLost]

I want to include a Disney-fied pre-RSVP in with my CDs to get a basic idea of who is definitely not coming.

Here's the wording I have... thoughts?

Our wedding may seem like a Lightyear away, but with such a Magical Destination it presents some unique challenges for all.

To help us determine a rough idea of how many want to Be Our Guests and ensure Lotso fun for everyone, please return this card to us as a pre-RSVP.

We understand that not everyone can look into a magic mirror this far in advance so this isn't a binding RSVP. This will simply help us choose the venues to begin our Happily Ever After.

___ Wouldn’t miss it for the Small, Small world! There will be __ people attending.

___ Sorry, but my Fairy godmother can’t get me to the ball.

___ We are unsure, and will need extra pixie dust. If we can fly, there will be __ of us.

___ We are unsure, but will be wishing upon a star and make every attempt to be there. If attending, there will be __ of us.

The final two choices are supposed to convey "maybe leaning toward no" and "maybe leaning toward yes" and I don't think that comes across.

 

[mickin]

Love how Disney it i.....lol lotso fun

 

[princesswendy720]

I love the Disney touches, but the 3rd and 4th options seemed like the same "maybe" to me. How about...

___ Probably, but we will need extra pixie dust. If we can fly, there will be __ of us.

___ Probably not, but we will be wishing upon a star and make every attempt to be there. If attending, there will be __ of us.

 

[CityGirlLost]

Wendy, I've been wracking my brain all day with trying to figure out how to distinguish the maybes. You rock.

 

[Diegosmom]

yeah I was totally confused as to what the difference were in the first post but the suggestion is great and totally clear...