Every year I take the kids for portraits for Christmas. This year I'm just not going to be able to swing it. I thought of going super cheap but I think with your help I can do better then that.
What I have: D90, SB400 w/cap diffuser, 18-105mm VR lens.
Details of my location: Fireplace decorated for Christmas (including mini lights), to the right a window and sliding door that gets south light. A 12yr old that can be bribed to be good and two almost 3yr olds that can't.
What I *think* I know: Use a tripod w/remote (turn off the VR), shoot in aperture priority at least 5.6 to get all three kids in focus and sharp. My best light in this situation I'm thinking would be mid-AM. Can't see it happening without the flash.
I have read, I think it was Kyle about using garage work lights for lighting. Where would I place these?
Should I buy some white foam core for reflecting? If so, should I try to reflect the window light or the work lights or both?
My flash, I can't bounce it, I have vaulted ceilings and I wouldn't want to point it straight at them, so your advice for that.
Do I have a chance in heck of getting the lights and still getting the proper exposure on the kids?

I know if I want a 'star' effect I should close my aperture a bit which will slow things down, is it worth it to try?
Anyone want to come do this for me?