Poor Sandra Bullock

[handinpocket]

Let's also not forget that she knew that. She knew what she was getting when she married him. I am not saying that that makes her wrong in any way other than her poor judgement in choosing a spouse...

You're preaching to the choir here, I agree with you 100%. I bet most of her colleagues are shaking their heads saying "what did she expect.....duh".

 

[tinkerdorabelle]

I know, he was married to a porn star. That wasn't a red flag??? By the way, would u ever, ever, EVER be with someone that was married to a porn star?? I know I would never even consider it and I'm pretty liberal, lol. Just the thought of health issues alone. I mean I don't want to get graphic but unless u used a total body shield u can still catch things.

 

[puffkin]

I also join the camp of "what did she expect" given his past. I know you can always hope a person will change, but that is almost never the case.

Personally I am really tired of this whole story. I think Sandra is doing the right thing and just staying out of it. I hope something new comes along so this story can be put to rest.

 

[tinkerdorabelle]

I also join the camp of "what did she expect" given his past. I know you can always hope a person will change, but that is almost never the case.

Personally I am really tired of this whole story. I think Sandra is doing the right thing and just staying out of it. I hope something new comes along so this story can be put to rest.

That's the way I feel about the Tiger story. Really ridiculous. This one seems to have just come about and no one really knows yet what happened which I think is what perks my interest a little. I don't get the way out obsessing either like they do about Tiger, Jon and Kate, etc., etc. This story is just beginning.

 

[Handbag Lady]

How much do you want to bet that he'll pull the same old crap- like EVERY OTHER famous person does who gets caught..."OH, feel sorry for me, I have an addiction and I'm doing the best I can to get help!" How long do you think it will be before we get fed that same old crap with HIM?

I don't see that with him. I see him TRYING to beg for public forgiveness, but in essence, he's now become a persona non grata in the industry. Sandra Bullock isn't like most other actors and she has the respect of so many people. I think he's going to be kicked to the curb.

 

[stahshee]

I know, he was married to a porn star. That wasn't a red flag??? By the way, would u ever, ever, EVER be with someone that was married to a porn star?? I know I would never even consider it and I'm pretty liberal, lol. Just the thought of health issues alone. I mean I don't want to get graphic but unless u used a total body shield u can still catch things.

I would be very worried about health issues

 

[sunshine1178]

I think that the sticky thing here is the kids. Prior to these revelations about his multiple partners, SB and JJ were in the news some for their custody fight against his ex-wife. If SB really believes that the ex is an unfit parent, how can she leave the child? I think that JJ would have a poor chance of retaining custody on his own, with the current allegations. The smartest thing would be for SB to stay legally married, get the ex's rights terminated, adopt the child, THEN file for divorce and request sole custody. I'm not saying that that is fair to the bio parents, but I think it would be SB's smartest move.

 

[dislaney]

Jessie is sounding like Tiger.

I think there are a lot of men out there like Tiger. Probably some women too!

 

[FINFAN]

I think Tiger is the one who leaked the story, to take the heat off of him...lol....I mean, Jesse's mistresses are hiring the same attorney thaTiger/s ones are using..wait, me thinks it the ATTORNEY letting the cats out of the bag, she's cleaning up!
In all seriousness, while sad to hear about, not a shock.

 

[mykidsand_i]

How much do you want to bet that he'll pull the same old crap- like EVERY OTHER famous person does who gets caught..."OH, feel sorry for me, I have an addiction and I'm doing the best I can to get help!" How long do you think it will be before we get fed that same old crap with HIM?

Well, that didn't take long at all! He 'checked into a rehab' in AZ- one that treats addictions and other 'issues' as they put it.

What a joke. These rehab stays for actors/actresses are full of such PR crap- "you'd better go so people think you're trying to fix your problems- people might feel for you if you go..." I would say that 80% (or even higher) don't even STAY IN THE REHAB long enough to even start any kind of a change for the better.

He's such a stupid man for cheating- but like others said...what did Sandra expect? He was married to a porn star- did she expect him to change his ways?

This rehab crap with all these famous people got old a year or two ago- I'm amazed that they even think it works anymore. Like they think it's pulling the wool over the eyes of the people who do support him? Are people really that dumb?

 

[stahshee]

Well, that didn't take long at all! He 'checked into a rehab' in AZ- one that treats addictions and other 'issues' as they put it.

What a joke. These rehab stays for actors/actresses are full of such PR crap- "you'd better go so people think you're trying to fix your problems- people might feel for you if you go..." I would say that 80% (or even higher) don't even STAY IN THE REHAB long enough to even start any kind of a change for the better.

He's such a stupid man for cheating- but like others said...what did Sandra expect? He was married to a porn star- did she expect him to change his ways?

This rehab crap with all these famous people got old a year or two ago- I'm amazed that they even think it works anymore. Like they think it's pulling the wool over the eyes of the people who do support him? Are people really that dumb?

Id bet he will be on celeb rehab w Dr drew,, I love that show

 

[NY Disney fan]

I believe he really does love her and that she's the best thing that ever happened to him and he knows it. But he made really poor choices and will have to live with the consequences. SO DISAPPOINTED!!!

I also feel that Jesse cheated on her b/c deep down inside he knows he's bad news. He's always been a bad egg, right down to his name. All he has ever heard is: Sandra married you? or How did YOU get Sandra? He feels worthless. Sleeping with trash was a way for him to level the playing field. Probably made him feel worthy since he was so threatened by Sandra. (her beauty, her career, her $$, her love, her selflessness).

 

[NY Disney fan]

I have lost ALL respect for Dr. Drew since he called Sandra Bullock a "love addict". He's disgusting and disrespectful. He knows nothing about the human condition.

 

[stashbin]

I always wondered what attracted Sandra to him. I hope she finds someone better for her.

I wondered that too. Until I found out he used to be married to a porn star. Then I thought maybe it's either he learned a few things from the porn star, or maybe its because he was able to make a porn star happy.

 

[stashbin]

I also feel that Jesse cheated on her b/c deep down inside he knows he's bad news. He's always been a bad egg, right down to his name. All he has ever heard is: Sandra married you? or How did YOU get Sandra? He feels worthless. Sleeping with trash was a way for him to level the playing field. Probably made him feel worthy since he was so threatened by Sandra. (her beauty, her career, her $$, her love, her selflessness).

Ya know, this does make sense. Not excusing him by no means...(the fact that he is using the same tactics as Tiger Woods to try to get out of the dog house is sad).

Who knows the reason why people cheat. Every person who cheats has some kind of excuse. Some excuses are better than others, but the fact remains that those acts of discretion always always hurt someone.

 

[TanyaLovesPooh]

Terrible situation. I feel bad for her mostly because she was so close to his children and them to her.

 

[Kim&Chris]

The more I read about Jesse James, the more I think he's a complete dirtbag, and I'd be really disappointed if Sandra Bullock even went into the same room as him, let alone took him back.

Have any of you seen the lovely photo of him donning the same Nazi hat that his mistress wears? In the photo, he is saluting with one outstretched arm, and with the other, he is making a little Hitler mustache over his mouth. What a pig.