I remember that post. The mom had spoke to someone at Disney (can't remember who)and said she would only have a few people over. She then invited a huge mob. I wonder what ever happened?
Initially she called the Call Center and she was told it was ok, only to find out that meant she could have the number of guests allowed for her unit which was 8. She was not allowed to have a large group party. Disney has a special department that handles group parties.
Here is the info about parties:
BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION OPTIONS
Reservations: Call 407-WDW-BDAY (*Prices Subject to Change*)
Sandcastle Club at Disney's Beach Club Resort
Price: 2-hour party - $250.00 plus tax for the first 12 children; $20.00 plus tax for each additional child
Hours: 11:00am - 1:00pm
Never Land Club at Disney's Polynesian Resort
Price: 2-hour party - $250.00 up to 12 guests; $20 for each additional guest; No charge for adults/chaperones
Hours: 10:00am - 12:00pm or 11:00am - 1:00pm
Characters are available upon request. Please call 407-824-2197 for additional information
Harbor Club at Disney's BoardWalk Resort
Price: $250 plus tax for the first 12 children. $20 plus tax for each additional child
Hours: 11:00am - 1:00pm
Simba's Cubhouse at Disney's Animal Kingdom Lodge
Price: 3-hour party - $350.00 plus tax for the first 12 children. $20 plus tax for each additional child.
Hours: 11:00am to 2:00pm
Disney's Winter Summerland Miniature Golf Course
Price: 2-hour party - $18.95 plus tax, per person and includes cake, pizza, beverages, goody bags and a round of miniature golf on one of the specially themed courses. A minimum of 10 people for each party and a credit card guarantee are required.
Hours: 10:00am -12:00 noon; 12:30pm - 2:30pm; 1:00pm - 3:00pm; 4:00pm - 6:00pm
Disney's Blizzard Beach Water Park
Price: 1½ - hour party - $15.95 plus tax, per person plus Blizzard Beach admission and includes pizza, Birthday cake, pink lemonade and iced tea. A minimum of 5 people for each party and a maximum of 30 people.
Hours: 11:00am; 1:00pm; 3:00pm
Location: Lottawatta Lodge dining deck
Celebration Cruise
Cruise for an hour on the lake and enjoy VIP fireworks viewing.
Price: $211.26 for 21' Pontoon or $258.21 for the 25' Pontoon with Audio ($220 or $275 with tax)
(price admits up to 10 if group is made up of all adults, 12 if group is a mix of children and adults)
Hours: Departs 30 minutes prior to IllumiNations at Epcot or 30 minutes prior to Wishes at the Magic Kingdom
Disney's Wide World of Sports Complex - The Sports Experience
2-hour birthday parties. Be advised that complex closes each night at 5pm.
Price: $19.95 + tax per person (Same for adults & children; minimum of 10 guests) - price includes general admission to the complex and The Sports Experience
Hours: 11am - 1pm; 12pm - 2pm; 2pm - 4pm; Available 7 days a week (times are TBD on select days during Atlanta Braves Spring Training).
As someone said Disney does want you to get together and have parties but they do have guidelines for that and the pool of a resort where guests are not staying is not an option.
Can you imagine the chaos at a pool as small as POFQ if two people decided to invite an extra 20-30 people to the pool.