We stayed at the Poly for the first time 2/9 - 2/16. We too were worried and anxious. Not really due to the negative reviews on the boards because you'll hear good and bad about every resort. We were mainly worried because we usually stay at the Yacht or Beach Club and have never liked any other resort. We've tried many. However, YC/BC wasn't available. So we tried the Poly and guess what? It's our new favorite.
Why? It's a very relaxed resort - and very romantic. The grounds are lovely. Rooms are big. Can't beat the convenience. Love the beach areas and the pool. But most of all, the Poly has the Disney Magic down pat. Great CMs.
As far as moldy rooms - ours certainly wasn't! We were in Tokelau. The rooms are bigger than BC. We noticed a big difference. Some may feel it needs an update - "it" being the whole resort, but I disagree. I think it's perfect just like it is.
And, you're honeymooning. You won't find a more romantic place. Grab a Lapu Lapu (yummy pineapple drink) and find a hammock on the beach and watch the nightly fireworks. Or the electrical water pageant. Take a stroll over to the Grand Floridian and enjoy the restaurants.
Speaking of restaurants, the Poly has 2 really good ones. Ohana and Kona Cafe. Kona Cafe is hands down the best breakfast place on property! And O'hana is quite an experience, along with good food.
We loved it! I think you will too. Especially since you're honeymooners.
PamNC