That kind of makes sense, but I see that Olivia's has Prime Rib on the menu, again, so I'll get that even at the price. If it is something that really sounds good to me, I order it, and it still winds up less than the DDP. For my upcoming trip in June, I made my dining reservations, then went through the menus and picked what I would probably want to eat, and rounded up to include the tip, and it still came out cheaper than the DDP.
Yeah it really depends on what places the family would choose to eat.
Example, we like going to Grand Flo Cafe for a convenient casual table service, usually earlier in the day for late breakfast or lunch. Our bill is typically low. We don’t drink alcohol that early and at least some of us are opting for food under $20.
Doing 3 meals like that vs 3 character meal with some cocktails… makes a huge difference in daily average food spending.
I might add it 1 night for $100pp x3 of us and we’ll each get:
mug - I value about $12 because usually 1 or 2 of us buy it regardless,
snack - $8
QS - $20 each as that is what we’d likely spend after tax at Docking Bay 7 regardless
TS - $80 each on our Crystal Palace ADR ($64 + $10 beer x .07 tax)
Around $120 value for what we’d be paying out of pocket anyway, but now we can also:
Upgrade to the $16 beer we all really like at Docking Bay instead of our more typical soda or coffee, and try the $20 mimosa at Crystal Palace. One night of DDP gets us a happy drink on Day 1 and Day 2. These are like the ‘bonus’ of going this route.
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These choices fully out of pocket would cost (after tax) : $25 mug, F&G Seafood bake $9, Docking Bay $37, CP $90
^That equals $161 each

More importantly we’ll have fun doing it and it’s not putting us out of our way.
Our first day is BWV/HS, next day we’ll do Epcot before moving to VGF and doing MK that night.
If we skipped this 1 night DDP? No biggie. We’d likely skip some of the alcohol and at least 1 mug if not having DDP.