I have to jump in because the Pokemon trading card game has been life changing for my 8 year old son. About a year ago I finally agreed to bring my son to Pokemon League in our town at our local game store. A friend of mine had been taking her son for some time and he loved it, but I was shying away from any more commitments. We finally showed up one night with a baggy full of old pokemon cards from his big brothers days of collecting. One of the older kids (19 or so) helped him build a deck and then another kid about his age taught him how to play. He loved it! We started with buying a prebuilt deck and then more cards, and eventually got a deck put together for me, so that I could practice with him at home.
Benefits I observed:
Sportsmanship! There is an expectation of how you conduct yourself while playing and seeing all the other kids acting the right way, really helped my son behave correctly. It also helps that there are matches being played all around you and at every one there is a winner and a loser, and you usually get to be both throughout the evening of play.
Reading! If you can't read, you can't really play. My son worked so hard at trying to read all those little words. And his reading improved!
Family Time! My older son who had only collected before, saw his brother and I practicing and started getting interested. He started practicing with his brother, and then going to league with us. Next weekend we are attending our first Regional Competition and both my boys, my nephew and I will all be playing. My teenager actually thinks it is cool that I play!
And since this is the budget board: You student can even win scholarships! How cool is that? If they do well in lower level competitions, they can win expense paid trips to the world championships. Our league has some of the top rated players in the world, so I have seen this happen!
The age range at league does require that I attend all events with my 8 year old, but I don't mind. There are usually a few of us "pokemoms" around and we get a lot of social time in when we are not playing. (I usually only play at league if we are short kids and one of them needs a partner)
Good Luck!
Tracey