Wow, Thanks everyone, that is what I was looking for. I left for dinner right after I posted and as soon as we were in the car I started thinking that I didn't give enough information and so wasn't going to hear much on the post....
What I should say
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Me- 5 trips to WDW, too many to count to DL
DH-1 trip to WDW, too many to count to DL
DS-8 1 trip to WDW (under 2 years old) and about 12 to DL
DD- 6 first WDW trip, 5 or 6 to DL (only one who has never lived in California)
We will have UPH either way as currently booked with Visa kids play free and looking into Visa pay for 4 get 3 free.
Either way it will be 7 nights onsite and 3 or 4 offsite (at HIFS).