like many of u, my husband and i are far from rich... he's an area mgr in retail, and i'm a medical researcher, neither of them the most lucrative jobs in the world! <G> but some things are just worth saving for! i use coupons and comparison shop all yr and put whatever i save from that in the vacation acct(DH has NO CLUE how much vacation costs). I also bought a timeshare which allows us to go more often than we might otherwise. Since we go in the summer, right after our birthdays, our birthday gifts from our parents cover our passes(almost) and now my kids are older, they get to pay for part of theirs.(they're 19 and 24 and both work, one still in school as well) my kids are handicapped, so it will be a long time before we ever vacation w/o them, but it doesn' t mean they don't need to learn to budget themselves. Our tax return goes to pay for plane fare. And I pay for the rest. Why do we do this instead of waiting yrs and yrs for a 'big' fancy vacation in a deluxe hotel? Well, when i was growing up, I used to wonder why my dad always insisted on going on expensive vacations..we spent winters in the caribbean or the keys for a few weeks every year, and lived yr round on a lake, so yes, we were spoiled. But the reason he did that was he knew he had a bad heart... and every vacation might be the last he could take w/us. I was lucky, he lived until i was almost 17, and we all have great memories w/him. But i'm so glad he took time out of his job as a VP to spend those uninterrupted weeks with us. So, I guess my motto is, try to live every day as fully as possible and work on creating opportunities for quality one on one time with your families! We tend to do 2 yrs at DIS for 2 wks each yr, then one yr off(this allows us to buy annual passes and maximize their use) so, we think its worth it... the girls are getting older now, and we frequently take along a few of their friends as well. (WE don't pay for their park passes/expenses/etc. just provide lodging and transportation in Orlando) but its nice for them to have some time to go off on their own, then the 2nd week we are just family. The best thing about being there 2 wks is u can leisurely enjoy your stay, not just race from ride to ride! So, yes, its worth it, u can make it too... it just takes a lot of planning, and these boards are great for that! So happy traveling!