Scrappy_Tink
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I've read numerous threads and commented on some on this particular part of the Disboards...and please I don't want anyone to be offended or think me frivolous because of my worries and concerns about my dog, I'm just not sure where else to post this.
I know so many of you have children and spouses, or yourselves are facing horrible gut-wrenching difficulties each day, and what I'm going to write is going to seem so trivial that I wouldn't blame anyone one for flaming me, but I'm at such a delimina about my pet.
I have a beautiful yellow lab, Max, who I refer to as my "furry" son. He has been with me through my ups and downs for the last 10 years, and has always given me his paw when I've felt blue, or let me cry on his big floppy ears. His "favorite" is his big stuffed duck, that he just "happens" to want to play and squeek every time me and DH decide to sit and watch a movie. He's ridiculously funny and loveable.
He's recently has come up with this condition, where he constantly drools. There is always a line of slobber going from his face to the floor...and heaven forbid if he shakes his head, it flys EVERYWHERE. I wipe slobber off our walls, TV. Our furniture has trails of what looks like snail slime on it. He's ruining our furniture and I can't even escape the house to go to work in the mornings without having slime somewhere on my clothings.
I took him to the vet, who cannot find a thing wrong with him...she just said it's probably just because he's getting old. I just don't see how this can be normal in any way.
I'm to the point now where I'm considering putting him down, which fills me with such anxiety. I wouldn't do this with a PERSON if they "inconvenienced" me with their illness. He's so loving and there are no other problems. I just can't take the constant wiping down walls, wiping clothes before work, and trying to clean the furniture. I've gotten to where I resent everytime he shakes his head because it'll hit me in the face, or there's another big blob on the wall.
I know many of you that I'm sure have MANY more difficult messes to clean up after loved ones, and do it every day and cope and love. i feel dumb even writing this.
Yes, I do know the difference between people and dogs, I think part of what I feel so guilty about is...what if it was my child/parent/spouse, that was "inconveniencing" me by this mess? Am I such a shallow person that I'd let their messes make me want to "get rid of them" too?
Can anyone help me put this into perspective? BTW, there is NO way Max could become an "outside" dog...even if it meant prolonging his life. It would truely hurt him so bad if he couldn't be around "his" people all the time
could someone please help me come to terms with what I can do about him?
I know so many of you have children and spouses, or yourselves are facing horrible gut-wrenching difficulties each day, and what I'm going to write is going to seem so trivial that I wouldn't blame anyone one for flaming me, but I'm at such a delimina about my pet.
I have a beautiful yellow lab, Max, who I refer to as my "furry" son. He has been with me through my ups and downs for the last 10 years, and has always given me his paw when I've felt blue, or let me cry on his big floppy ears. His "favorite" is his big stuffed duck, that he just "happens" to want to play and squeek every time me and DH decide to sit and watch a movie. He's ridiculously funny and loveable.
He's recently has come up with this condition, where he constantly drools. There is always a line of slobber going from his face to the floor...and heaven forbid if he shakes his head, it flys EVERYWHERE. I wipe slobber off our walls, TV. Our furniture has trails of what looks like snail slime on it. He's ruining our furniture and I can't even escape the house to go to work in the mornings without having slime somewhere on my clothings.
I took him to the vet, who cannot find a thing wrong with him...she just said it's probably just because he's getting old. I just don't see how this can be normal in any way.
I'm to the point now where I'm considering putting him down, which fills me with such anxiety. I wouldn't do this with a PERSON if they "inconvenienced" me with their illness. He's so loving and there are no other problems. I just can't take the constant wiping down walls, wiping clothes before work, and trying to clean the furniture. I've gotten to where I resent everytime he shakes his head because it'll hit me in the face, or there's another big blob on the wall.
I know many of you that I'm sure have MANY more difficult messes to clean up after loved ones, and do it every day and cope and love. i feel dumb even writing this.
Yes, I do know the difference between people and dogs, I think part of what I feel so guilty about is...what if it was my child/parent/spouse, that was "inconveniencing" me by this mess? Am I such a shallow person that I'd let their messes make me want to "get rid of them" too?
Can anyone help me put this into perspective? BTW, there is NO way Max could become an "outside" dog...even if it meant prolonging his life. It would truely hurt him so bad if he couldn't be around "his" people all the time
could someone please help me come to terms with what I can do about him?