I am not trying to start anything just want to get other's opinions..
I have run across some postings from people making comments about young children and what I consider normal toddler behavior.. like fidgeting, laughing, talking.
I guess it started bothering me because the other day we went to HOPS ( like a TGI Fridays) at 2:30pm on a Sat. Of course we had our ds (2) with us. We sat in the booth and yes he is a very active child..When we go out to eat we let him sit in the booth with us and then when the food comes we sit him in the high chair, so he doesn't feel strapped in for 2 hours..
There was an older couple in the booth behind us and my son was not screaming, yelling,, but he was walking in the booth and they called the waiter over and asked to be moved (which was fine with us) but then before they moved they looked at us and said "You really should control his behavior!"
My son was not doing anything loud or outrageous...
Before anyone gets their guns out..I am a mom that doesn't go to restaraunts at night for this very reason, I don't do fine dining, I would never think about aking him with me to an adult movie (like I have seen other parents do.) and I do dicipline him when he gets carried away..
but to me no one can expect a toddler to sit quietly and listen to adult concersation for 2 hours, they need to move around and since I doj't want to let him loose in the rest. the booth seemd the best thing..
Okay now for the cruise part..why would someone get upset or roll their eyes when they see a family with young "fidgety kids" Gimme a break your on a DISNEY CRUISE! Are we supposed to a. drop our kids in the nursery for every activity or show b. lock ourselves in our rooms with them.
We do the best we can but kids under 3 are hard and they find it difficult to sit still...so have patience with us and if you don't like kids at all. Don't go on a DISNEY CRUISE!!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
Naomi
I have run across some postings from people making comments about young children and what I consider normal toddler behavior.. like fidgeting, laughing, talking.
I guess it started bothering me because the other day we went to HOPS ( like a TGI Fridays) at 2:30pm on a Sat. Of course we had our ds (2) with us. We sat in the booth and yes he is a very active child..When we go out to eat we let him sit in the booth with us and then when the food comes we sit him in the high chair, so he doesn't feel strapped in for 2 hours..
There was an older couple in the booth behind us and my son was not screaming, yelling,, but he was walking in the booth and they called the waiter over and asked to be moved (which was fine with us) but then before they moved they looked at us and said "You really should control his behavior!"
My son was not doing anything loud or outrageous...
Before anyone gets their guns out..I am a mom that doesn't go to restaraunts at night for this very reason, I don't do fine dining, I would never think about aking him with me to an adult movie (like I have seen other parents do.) and I do dicipline him when he gets carried away..
but to me no one can expect a toddler to sit quietly and listen to adult concersation for 2 hours, they need to move around and since I doj't want to let him loose in the rest. the booth seemd the best thing..
Okay now for the cruise part..why would someone get upset or roll their eyes when they see a family with young "fidgety kids" Gimme a break your on a DISNEY CRUISE! Are we supposed to a. drop our kids in the nursery for every activity or show b. lock ourselves in our rooms with them.
We do the best we can but kids under 3 are hard and they find it difficult to sit still...so have patience with us and if you don't like kids at all. Don't go on a DISNEY CRUISE!!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
Naomi