Happy New Year Amanda & Piper!! Thank you for sharing your story - no pity here just admiration of your strength!I wish for a great 2010 for both of you!
Thank you, Amy!

Happy New Year Amanda & Piper!! Thank you for sharing your story - no pity here just admiration of your strength!I wish for a great 2010 for both of you!
Thank you for sharing your story !!If any of us reads it an doesn't feel humbled by your courage , love and determination I will be surprised !!! I was feelin sorry for myself with 2010 starting with me being sick !! ut lady you jut gaveme a REALITY check !! I thank God that I only have a Bug that will be gone shortly ! Tha I am able to work, that my GK s are healthy as is my DD!!Yes 2010 is a GOOD Year !!
Thank you Amanda for givingme a much needed Wake up!! It has even made me feel better as I have stopped feeling sorry for myself
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Happy New Year Amanda and Piper!! Your are an amazing mom. I love reading your PTR! Keep up the good work!!!!![]()
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You know, it takes a lot of courage to leave like you did with Piper. I left my ex pretty much like that. Granted, I didn't have any children with me but I took what I could, my cat and just left and never looked back. Sometimes you just have to do that to survive.
Happy New Year!
Thank you, Leslie.I think children or not, that is always a hard situation to be in. I think the people that do what we did though (women and men) rarely regret it..you just have to be at a certain place to even have the willingness to pick up and go and leave so much behind...I think once someone is at that place, there's not much room for anything except relief and joy once they're out, as bad as that may sound.
The beginning of a new year always makes me think about . . . . So my wish for everyone is that you all have a wonderful 2010 . . .![]()
Thank you so much for sharing your story! Piper is SO lucky to have you, no wonder she is such a fighter.
I'm so glad you've had great people in your life to help you along the way![]()
Well, it's obvious where Piper gets her determination! You're a great mom because you're willing to make sacrifices. My best friend left her DH of 13yrs, no looking back, just took the dogs, and I have tremendous respect for her. It's not easy to do the right thing.Thanks for sharing that with us.
That . . . was . . . beautiful! Thank YOU for sharing your story with us! and Have a Happy New Year!
You are such a wonderful Mom and a wonderful person...your home story really had me wiping my eyeshowever the fountain in the middle of the room had me laughing right out loud! I just can't imagine that!
You have come such a long way
Happy New Year! You are going to Disney this year!!
Tracy
Because of the help of you all, I've been able to plan this trip the very best way that I can, received pixie dust (and thank you so much for that, you know who you are), and made friends that I hope will stay friends even after our trip. I don't want to get too much more sappy, but I don't have a very active social life outside of the home..Piper doesn't do playdates because most kids just don't "get" her, and we had to stop the dance classes when her health declined earlier this winter. I haven't really met many people that are willing to deal with my lack of flexibility in scheduling things around Piper's meds, etc. I was thrilled when I found the wish trippers thread to meet more parents who go through the same things I do, and have been even more thrilled to meet everyone who's posted here and have been so supportive with prayers, positive thoughts, a listening ear, and good advice.
So my wish for everyone is that you all have a wonderful 2010..that you hug your children a bit tighter, hold your friendships a bit closer, and realize that even on a bulletin board you can truly make a difference in someone's life! Okay, now I am watering..LOL. I'm going to stop here before Piper thinks I'm nuts..just thank you all..again!![]()
The video is so sweet! I'm so glad she's feeling better and you guys can enjoy planning this trip.![]()
Oh my gosh. I am just in tears. Because I totally get what you are saying here!
First, bless you for having the courage to pick up and leave. That has to be the hardest thing a parent can do - and you did it!
You have made a wonderful life for both you and Piper.
I totally get what you are saying here... Some folks think this is just a website about planning Disney?But I know it is so much more.
I am so glad the thread and the people you have met have influenced your life for the better. And I really, really hope you will stay around after your trip - even after you tell us all about it - and hang out with us. Your next trip to Disney may be years away...but we can keep on planning, right!
Happy New Year to you, my friend!
OK, I finally got to read your OT post....bless you & Piper. I've "been there, done that" and I know how hard it is.It's amazing how strong a mom can be when we must think of our child(ren). I've left with nearly nothing to move to a trailer, watched my younger sister leave to move in with our parents, and seen a few friends just stick with them " 'cause it's easier". I suppose they don't want to see what damage it's doing to the kids or they just aren't strong enough yet. If you're in that situation....please, be strong and follow our lead. If you feel like you have no one...read back a page and see how Amanda did it.
Bless you Amanda...you're giving someone else the courage to get out of a bad situation.
It's wonderful to read about how much things have changed for you as well...I'm so glad things are so much better and you all are happy. She's such a cute little girl and deserves a happy mommy.
enough of my rambling...
Happy New Year everyone!