I believe it depends on the age of the child (under 3 can stay and not count as a "extra person"). We too are a family of 5 and its really tough to always have to do a deluxe or get two rooms. The suites at All-Star would be nice for the extra bathroom but can add alot to your trip! We are HARDLY ever in the room and I guess its because of fire codes, etc. But Disney really needs to make more affordable options for real families to stay on property! There is a downtown hotel that sleeps 5-6 but I have never stayed there. We even left dear hubby home this past trip because of availability! LOL!!!!!