One of the great things about living in Chile is that I have the time and financial ability to hire a trainer. I only started at the beginning of May, but I have been working with my trainer three times a week. I share my sessions with a friend who is close in age and fitness level as myself (around 40, not overweight, but definitely out of shape).
For the first time in my adult life, I am actually starting to feel "fit". I have lost 6 lbs (without trying to diet), and have traded a lot of fat for muscle on top of that. I have more energy during the day, and find that my food cravings have come under control. I'm actually looking forward to summer to show off my new "beach body" (well, maybe not quite yet

).
I have tried to get myself into an exercise program too many times to count. I have signed up for fitness club memberships, dance classes, aquafit, etc. I have tried to develop swimming and jogging habits on my own. This is the first time, though, that I haven't given up after a month. I am still looking forward to my sessions (or at least the end of them!), and I'm starting to feel like I might be making that permanent cognitive change to a person who has exercise as a regular and accepted part of their life.
My trainer is close in age to me, but male. I hope no one takes this the wrong way, but I think I work harder for him than I would for a female trainer. We have a comfortable relationship, and humour is often a part of our sessions. He certainly pushes me harder than I ever have while working out in group classes or on my own. Often I face the situation where I just can't do that one last rep or sprint, but somehow I make it through. He is very good at judging what my friend and I can truly handle, and in convincing us to push ourselves that extra little bit.
He also makes our routines interesting. We don't go to a gym, but instead go into some nearby parkland, where we do everything from running up hills to throwing rocks. Each session brings some new and improved form of
torture exercise. While my friend and I often groan about it, I find that I'm looking forward to the new challenges.
I guess I feel that my trainer has been worth EVERY penny I've paid. I have never felt so healthy and I truly believe that this would never have come about without his help.