Having done both the Perfectly Princess Tea Party and the Wonderland Tea Party, I thought I'd chime in too.
The Wonderland Tea Party is a kids only tea party with Alice and the Mad Hatter held in 1900 Park Fare at the Grand Floridian around 2 pm in the afternoon. It runs around 45.00 per child. After checking in the child, the child is escorted into 1900 Park Fare where they play a few games and make a little craft item (door hanger/picture frame etc) They do not get a choice, it's whatever the craft item is for the day. Alice and the Mad Hatter come in and entertain the kids, and join them for tea. Tea is apple juice with cup cake that the kids decorate with the icing and confetti. The photo pass photographer there and will capture some amazing photos of the kids and Alice and Mad Hatter. It lasts about an hour and then the parents pick up the kids. My DGD has gone three times, and absolutely loves this tea party. We have a really cute tea pot picture frame that she made.
The Perfectly Princess Tea Party is held in the Garden View terrace at the Grand Floridian about 11 am. This is more formal, much like an English tea. The serve tea sandwiches (child and adult) with a cake serve with dessert. The kids get apple juice. Although, I did request English breakfast tea for both of us, which they served with the warning that it was really hot. (My DGD love her hot tea). Rose Pedal entertains with a delightful story of how she was a rose pedal that came to life, she teaches the children the sign language to the story. They parade around the tea room. The Baron plays music for the children. Princess Aurora comes by and visits each child. The child receives the Disney Doll, bracelet, a rose, a tiara. They have a parade around the GF lobby and go up to the gift shop where they pose for the photo pass photographers and then go into the store where they are giving a certificate and name their dolls.
It is expensive, but the experience is lovely. A little more formal and most girls were dressed up in their princess dresses. Lots of time to chat with Aurora and Rose Pedal, and even the Baron. The tea is a lovely tea. While the Wonderland Tea Party is an experience that can be repeated, I felt that the Perfectly Princess Tea Party is a one time experience and probably best for the 5-8 year old. The little ones get a little lost with the story. Much older may feel too old.
The Garden View Terrace has the traditional afternoon tea too. The prices are more reasonable, but remember, traditional afternoon tea is usually around 50.00+ per person.
As for the breakdown in cost, I equate 100.00 for the doll and accessories, and then the costs of the tea. I think tea is about 85.00 for an additional adult. And, as most things at Disney, one is paying for the experience. I'm glad I did it with my DGD.
I'm sure my DGD will be doing the Wonderland Tea party on her next trip, and if not, then we might just have go and have an afternoon tea at the Garden View Terrace.
What ever you decide, you will have a wonderful holiday! The nice thing about Disney, is that no matter your budget, you will have a magical holiday!
Enjoy Karen