Parks dress code?

[sam_gordon]

I believe there is a baker in Colorado that would have to disagree that you are allowed to set the rules in your own business based on deeply held religious values.

That's an entirely different issue and doesn't really factor into dress code or enforcement of such.

 

[Mysterian]

Don't look down. They're all wearing Crocs.

 

[dez1978]

First, words can and do hurt.

For clarification, it's not the beliefs that hurt others, its trying to impose those beliefs on others than is harmful. As a pp said do you boo but don't expect that others have to step in line, kwim?

I absolutely agree with your 2nd statement there. Which is why I tried to clarify that I was speaking only of words, not actions or trying to get others to believe the same thing. But I stand by the words only hurt if you let them. Same as what someone else is wearing can only bother you if you let it. You can only control you and your reactions to others. If you can choose to be offended or not by what someone is wearing, can you not also choose if something someone calls you offends you? like "In order to hurt my feelings, I must first value your opinion". I saw that somewhere not to long ago and it kind of stuck with me.

I think that's a very interesting take. But words CAN be insulting. "You're an idiot." is definitely an insult, and there are obviously worse ones out there. So, you can insult me with words, but can clothes I wear insult you (leaving phrasing on a shirt out)?

Let's go to extremes. Let's say there's a group of people who think all skin aside from hands and head should be covered at all times, so that's the clothes they wear. If I go into a business that states "all skin except for hands or head must be covered" in shorts and a t-shirt, that's not following their "rules" and could be considered insulting, yes?

However, if those people go to Disney World (or almost anywhere else in public) and see people in shorts and t-shirts, that's not insulting their beliefs, is it?

I do see a difference there between words and clothing, but don't know if I've expressed it well.

I don't disagree with you, just pointing out that its odd that society can say you shouldn't be offended by what anyone wears, but we need to be careful about what we say, lest we offend someone. We should not judge people based on what they wear, but it's ok to judge someone because they cuss? Because how many times have we seen posts here or on fb complaining about people cursing and how it shows a lack of intellegence? Or a person's hair or tattoos is not a reflection of a persons ability to do a job, but judge those who dress in long skirts and long hair as being in a cult?

 

[Lilsia]

I believe some of us are discussing different situations. Firstly...not about religion for me. Also ...no problem showing skin either. My issue is people revealing areas that are considered to be private by most and see-through clothing in family friendly venues. Is it really that difficult to show a bit of respect or restraint? Don't really want my kiddos seeing your intimate bits. Sorry but I'm trying to be delicate. I believe there are limits to what most folks will tolerate. Yes I have been subjected to views of personal body parts...more than once at WDW. It's hard not to look when it's in your face...standing in a line for an hour.

I have never seen "intimate bits" at the parks. I have seen butt cheeks, but I don't consider that to be so egregious. A bit gross maybe, just like butt crack is, which is something that no one wants to see, but no one will get arrested for it. Unless actual genitalia is exposed, it's not a big deal to me. I don't even care about breasts. The US has a messed up mentality on that anyway.
This thread reminds me of the Cruise dinner clothing discussion. About how some think that what others are wearing "ruins" their dining experience. LOL

 

[sam_gordon]

I don't disagree with you, just pointing out that its odd that society can say you shouldn't be offended by what anyone wears, but we need to be careful about what we say, lest we offend someone. We should not judge people based on what they wear, but it's ok to judge someone because they cuss? Because how many times have we seen posts here or on fb complaining about people cursing and how it shows a lack of intellegence? Or a person's hair or tattoos is not a reflection of a persons ability to do a job, but judge those who dress in long skirts and long hair as being in a cult?

I think it's an interesting way to look at it.

BUT, no one is saying you can't judge people for what they wear. Judge away. At issue is whether you can/should be able to make them wear something that YOU think is appropriate.

And you are correct, words only hurt us if we let them. BUT, words CAN be insulting. It's pretty hard for clothes to insult someone else (leaving out words & images on shirts).

 

[TLSnell1981]

OK, I'll bite... what are you seeing through the see through clothing? Undergarments or skin?

If you are seeing body parts that are normally covered by MOST swimsuits (including bikinis), that's a problem. If it's a body part you wouldn't be surprised to see at a water park/pool/beach (not referring to clothing optional locations), I think it's "OK" in the park.

Parts that are normally covered by most swimsuits and/or undergarments. best fits the description.

 

[jrmasm]

I absolutely agree with your 2nd statement there. Which is why I tried to clarify that I was speaking only of words, not actions or trying to get others to believe the same thing. But I stand by the words only hurt if you let them. Same as what someone else is wearing can only bother you if you let it. You can only control you and your reactions to others. If you can choose to be offended or not by what someone is wearing, can you not also choose if something someone calls you offends you? like "In order to hurt my feelings, I must first value your opinion". I saw that somewhere not to long ago and it kind of stuck with me.

I don't disagree with you, just pointing out that its odd that society can say you shouldn't be offended by what anyone wears, but we need to be careful about what we say, lest we offend someone. We should not judge people based on what they wear, but it's ok to judge someone because they cuss? Because how many times have we seen posts here or on fb complaining about people cursing and how it shows a lack of intellegence? Or a person's hair or tattoos is not a reflection of a persons ability to do a job, but judge those who dress in long skirts and long hair as being in a cult?

I think it’s dismissive to tell people that their feelings are wrong and that they shouldn’t let things bother them. I also think that we are responsible for our words and how they are received. I believe we should do our best to not be offensive and definitely to not turn things around on another person when we have hurt or upset them.

 

[tzolkin]

Not a Floridian, but I grew up in the 60s & 70s. We wore skimpy tube tops, thin cotton halters, short shorts (hot pants) & something called sizzler sets (basically a tunic with matching tiny panties) in unimaginable patterns & colors. No one who grew up when I did should be judging anyone’s clothes.

My husband and I were joking about those tiny terry cloth rompers of the 80s the other day. Both our grandmothers wore them in the summer with no undergarments. I’m sure both would have had a fit over some clothes our daughters wear today, but I think their old outfits left even less to the imagination. Lol

I believe some of us are discussing different situations. Firstly...not about religion for me. Also ...no problem showing skin either. My issue is people revealing areas that are considered to be private by most and see-through clothing in family friendly venues. Is it really that difficult to show a bit of respect or restraint? Don't really want my kiddos seeing your intimate bits. Sorry but I'm trying to be delicate. I believe there are limits to what most folks will tolerate. Yes I have been subjected to views of personal body parts...more than once at WDW. It's hard not to look when it's in your face...standing in a line for an hour.

The only things I would consider “private parts” or “intimate bits” would be people’s genitals (and that does not mean breasts or butts). I have never in my life seen anyone wearing clothing that did not cover their genitals, but I would agree that would be inappropriate.

 

[TLSnell1981]

My husband and I were joking about those tiny terry cloth rompers of the 80s the other day. Both our grandmothers wore them in the summer with no undergarments. I’m sure both would have had a fit over some clothes our daughters wear today, but I think their old outfits left even less to the imagination. Lol


The only things I would consider “private parts” or “intimate bits” would be people’s genitals (and that does not mean breasts or butts). I have never in my life seen anyone wearing clothing that did not cover their genitals, but I would agree that would be inappropriate.

Yes...genitals and nipples. It's not okay in a supposedly family friendly environment. Now at Mardi Gras, topless pools in Vegas, some concert venues, etc...different situation entirely and not unexpected. While not as overt I have seen it at WDW.

 

[Lilsia]

Yes...genitals and nipples. It's not okay in a supposedly family friendly environment. Now at Mardi Gras, topless pools in Vegas, some concert venues, etc...different situation entirely and not unexpected. While not as overt I have seen it at WDW.

What is wrong with nipples? You do realize that men have them too?

 

[momz]

I am conflicted on this. 1, I think it's weird to sexualize little kids. But 2, I know there are plenty of creeps and awful people who do, so I don't understand why dressing little kids like adults going to the club is a thing, andit makes me glad I have boys. I never worry about finding them shorts that cover all the things or shirts that are long enough.

Mostly I agree. But I have a serious question. Why is this thought ok when it comes to how a person dresses but not things they say or believe? Like if you get offended by my clothes thats a you problem, not a me problem. But I have to be careful about what I say, because it could be offensive to others? If you are offended by what people wear, you are too sensitive, but it's ok to expect others to not say words that offend you. And I'm not even talking about specific words that we all know are offensive and shouldn't be said. Just random pre coffee thoughts today lol

Freedom of speech. Freedom of religion.

Say what you want.
Also, you are free to be offended by what I wear or what I say. Makes no difference to me.

However, that freedom extends to others as well, so don’t be surprised if they express their offense. That’s fine.

 

[momz]

I absolutely agree with your 2nd statement there. Which is why I tried to clarify that I was speaking only of words, not actions or trying to get others to believe the same thing. But I stand by the words only hurt if you let them. Same as what someone else is wearing can only bother you if you let it. You can only control you and your reactions to others. If you can choose to be offended or not by what someone is wearing, can you not also choose if something someone calls you offends you? like "In order to hurt my feelings, I must first value your opinion". I saw that somewhere not to long ago and it kind of stuck with me.

I don't disagree with you, just pointing out that its odd that society can say you shouldn't be offended by what anyone wears, but we need to be careful about what we say, lest we offend someone. We should not judge people based on what they wear, but it's ok to judge someone because they cuss? Because how many times have we seen posts here or on fb complaining about people cursing and how it shows a lack of intellegence? Or a person's hair or tattoos is not a reflection of a persons ability to do a job, but judge those who dress in long skirts and long hair as being in a cult?

Of course you can judge someone by what they wear or what they say. But you cannot censor their words. As far as clothing, I think there are actually laws against nudity. Otherwise, a business may have rules, but that’s not the same as a law. If you don’t like the rules, go somewhere else.

The freedom of speech is not limited to saying only things that are not offensive. Lol. You WILL be offended, expect it.

 

[tzolkin]

Yes...genitals and nipples. It's not okay in a supposedly family friendly environment. Now at Mardi Gras, topless pools in Vegas, some concert venues, etc...different situation entirely and not unexpected. While not as overt I have seen it at WDW.

Thanks for clarifying. I asked because I know people on the boards can have drastically different definitions of things, so I wasn't sure if you were talking about cleavage or short shorts or something that I believe are fine.

I personally have never seen someone wearing clothing that purposely exposed their genitals or nipples (honestly, I'm having a hard time even imagining what these items of clothing would look like-- like a shirt with circles cut out of the chest?) so I wouldn't think to mention that these things should be banned at Disney.

 

[dez1978]

What is wrong with nipples? You do realize that men have them too?

And no one bats an eye when they see them. Maybe if people could remember the actual purpose of women's breasts instead of only thinking of them for other purposes, they could stop getting upset about it. And heaven forbid a woman feed a baby without covering up. Pearl clutching everywhere.

Thanks for clarifying. I asked because I know people on the boards can have drastically different definitions of things, so I wasn't sure if you were talking about cleavage or short shorts or something that I believe are fine.

I personally have never seen someone wearing clothing that purposely exposed their genitals or nipples (honestly, I'm having a hard time even imagining what these items of clothing would look like-- like a shirt with circles cut out of the chest?) so I wouldn't think to mention that these things should be banned at Disney.

The closest I have seen is women wearing white tops with nothing underneath, and it's obvious that they are not wearing anything. Doesn't really bother me to see it, but I always think about how uncomfortable I'd be on the rides with no support lol

 

[momz]

Yes...genitals and nipples. It's not okay in a supposedly family friendly environment. Now at Mardi Gras, topless pools in Vegas, some concert venues, etc...different situation entirely and not unexpected. While not as overt I have seen it at WDW.

I’m gonna guess you saw a mother nursing her child.

But, I’ll entertain the possibility you saw something that you feel is inappropriate. My advice, don’t look at it. This is not a common problem so I think you’re safe at wdw. But if you are concerned that you might catch a glimpse then don’t go.

Btw, have you ever been to Walmart in the summertime? Come on, wdw is fine.

 

[tzolkin]

The closest I have seen is women wearing white tops with nothing underneath, and it's obvious that they are not wearing anything. Doesn't really bother me to see it, but I always think about how uncomfortable I'd be on the rides with no support lol

Okay. Maybe that is what the previous poster meant. To me, that's still considered "covered up". Men wear white/light colored t-shirts all the time so if it counts as fully clothed for them, it should also for women. I also don't really think Disney can enforce a dress code that includes what type of undergarments people need to wear under regular t-shirts.

I have occasionally seen women wearing sheer/mesh tops (not at Disney), but they always have some sort of bra or bikini underneath.

 

[gmi3804]

You'd think that children would be the most blasé about seeing a woman's breasts, KWIM?

 

[TLSnell1981]

I’m gonna guess you saw a mother nursing her child.

But, I’ll entertain the possibility you saw something that you feel is inappropriate. My advice, don’t look at it. This is not a common problem so I think you’re safe at wdw. But if you are concerned that you might catch a glimpse then don’t go.

Btw, have you ever been to Walmart in the summertime? Come on, wdw is fine.

You’d guess wrong. A breastfeeding mother is perfectly natural and not offensive at all.

I don’t go to Walmart. They have terrible customer service.

https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/faq/parks/dress/

Help Center​

Disney Theme Parks & Water Parks – Frequently Asked Questions​

Q:
What is the best way to dress for a visit to the parks?
A:
We suggest you dress comfortably, wear good walking shoes and check the local weather report before you leave for the parks at Walt Disney World Resort.
Proper attire, including shoes and shirts, must be worn at all times. The parks are a casual, family-oriented environment. Ensuring that the parks are family-friendly is an important part of the Disney experience. In that spirit, we ask you to use your discretion and common sense.

Inappropriate Attire
Disney reserves the right to deny admission to or remove any person wearing attire that is considered inappropriate or attire that could detract from the experience of other Guests. Attire that is not appropriate for the parks—and which may result in refusal of admittance—includes but is not limited to:

• Costumes and costume masks, which may not be worn by Guests 14 years of age or older.

Exceptions:

1. Specific Halloween and Christmas events. See below.
2. Some outfits inspired by Star Wars. Learn more

• Clothing with objectionable material, including obscene language or graphics
• Excessively torn clothing
• Clothing which, by nature, exposes excessive portions of the skin that may be viewed as inappropriate for a family environment
• Clothing that touches or drags on the ground
• Clothing with multiple layers is subject to search upon entry
• Objectionable tattoos

 

[gmi3804]

For me, "objectionable tattoos" is a redundancy. You want to have them? Go for it.

 

[sam_gordon]

Disney reserves the right to deny admission to or remove any person wearing attire that is considered inappropriate or attire that could detract from the experience of other Guests.

Please note what I marked in red. If a guest is offended by what someone else is wearing, they're free to bring it to the attention of a CM. What happens after that is up to WDW.