"I'm not sure where ppl vacation that is so much cheaper..."
Our family budgets for 1 vacation per year. These have been our family vacations over the past 5 years (family of 8):
-3 week road trip through Western U.S. and Canada, staying at nice hotels each night and visiting National Parks, eating out at least once per day, museums, etc.,:
$6,000.00
-2 week road trip to the East Coast of Canada and the U.S., staying in vacation homes and eating out lots / seeing lots of entertainment, etc.:
$5500.00
-10 day Mediterranean Cruise (not
Disney Cruise line) for my husband and I, including flights and all costs:
$6500.00. DCL would have been double this.
-1 week camping vacation in Northern Ontario:
$1000.00
-1 week Disney Vacation, driving down, staying offsite and eating out only once per day, spending only 4 days actually in Disney Parks:
$9,000.00. If we had stayed onsite and spent all 7 days in the parks, that cost would have been $15,000.00.
Disney Vacations are, hands down, the most expensive vacations we've ever taken. I can totally understand why there is a general view that it's one of the most expensive places to visit: because it is

. Paid fp's would make it even more off the charts. I love Disney, but to say it's comparable to other vacation price points just isn't true for us. We've also priced out flying to all-inclusive resorts in Jamaica, Cuba, etc., and they all come in cheaper than Disney.