In case anyone else wants the list, I began a compilation for myself. I used to have a list of 100 things to do in DL and 50 for DCA (other than attractions). I'll have to see if I can find it.
Flag Retreat (daily, evening)
Stop, sit, and listen to the
Disneyland band
Visit Snow Whites wishing well
Coke Corner: Musical chairs with the Mad Hatter (and other entertainment)
Visit the magic shop and be amazed by the magic of a Disney CM
Don't miss Farley The Fiddler. He plays on the front porch of the Davy Crockett Pioneer Mercantile (on the left as you enter Frontierland). He is usually there Monday - Friday, 11:00 am, 12:00 pm, 1:00, 2:30, 3:30, 4:30, and 5:30.
Sleeping Beauty Castle Walk through
Ride the Main Street Vehicles
Pilot the Mark Twain Riverboat
Ride up front on the monorail
Ride tender on the train
Ride in the Lilly Belle carriage
Watch the candy makers on Main Street
Movie Theatre on Main Street
layer organ in the arcade
At night by Pixie Hollow where King Tritan used to be (that area) every 15 minutes or half hour (not positive which), the lights in the trees start blinking to music and change colors so it looks like the pixies are flying around.
DCA: Port & chocolate tasting. It's $12 and you sign up at the wine bar in Wine Country Trattoria. You usually do this at the granite bar but when it wasn't busy, we were able to move to a little table nearby after we'd heard all of the info. I believe the tasting times are noon - 4. ask about the Magicale wine that is made in Italy exclusively for the Disney resort
DCA: Animation building