Thank you all so very much!! Yes, I think I've actually talked to FinFan before when he was just interested. I probably talked too much and got on her nerves! ha
For a long time CalArts was THE one he wanted. BUT, he wants to actually do character design and concept art instead of full animation and they concentrate mainly on the animation. He wants to major in Illustration. He thought about applying there as well though. I believe both Ringling and SCAD have wonderful reputations with the recruitment. KCAI does as well just maybe not as much with Disney/Pixar, etc. but not sure. He is open to other companies and is interested in Cartoon Network as well as doing illustrations for children's books! I guess we will wait and see what possible scholarships he can get because, yes, it is pricey for us as well! We just hope he gets enough because again, he's pretty much given up everything to pursue this dream of his!
I'll update you all after we visit SCAD. He has two friends there and one friend at Ringling so he's kind of being pulled. (oh, and another at KCAI). We also have a family acquaintance who's daughter will graduate from SCAD this year and she has said it was the best decision she's ever made. Lots of alumni from Ringling who work on Disney projects. Their "wall of fame" of all the alumni work was so impressive. Aaron Blaise is one. He worked on Aladdin, Beauty and the Beast, Pocahontas and many, many more. He does a lot of drawings of animals. His work is phenomenal!!
Thank you all again for your support. It's a very exciting time!
Hi! Exciting news, congrat"s. NO, NO, NO.....you didn't get on my nerves at all, lol. I literally was gone to Orlando , as my DD/Ringling grad accepted a new job out there and DH and I drove her car there. She was working in San Francisco but her goal has been FL and darned if she didn't pull it off

OK., here's my take especially considering the cost of all these schools

Go for an accredited school~if your son changes his mind, dislikes a schools environment, anything..he should be able to transfer credits from an accredited school, if not, that's a really expensive(in time and money) try-out at a school that isn't.
I think I may have mentioned this to you when we spoke, but have your DS contact companies he is interested in and ask about the schools they have preferred recruiting success from. Have him go on Reddit , ConceptArt.Org, any sites that will get him current feed back from alumni on how things have been going for them in the real world. Almost all of my DD's friends/peers from her graduating class ('12) are working in the industry, and the Ringling network is strong. I can't speak for SCAD or KCAI, but in the working world of Animation, games, etc. you have to have a strong network. Jobs are usually found out thru connections, not traditional methods. I can say that my DD's starting salary exceeded her/our expectations (however cost of living in San Francisco eats that up quickly)I can pm you the offers she has had and luckily was able to choose from. The work load at Ringling is intense for the CA students..well for all of them, but CA goes thru the ringer. Having close proximity to family and friends can be a huge plus. we were 1200 miles away from our DD, and it was rough for both sides at times. However, DD says to this day she wouldn't change a thing, including the cost of attending Ringling. Her friends who majored in Illustration loved the program and award -wise, Ringling leads the pack in students who continually take awards. We are from IL, so no Bright Futures or other FL incentive $. DD passed on good size scholarships from SCAD & CCAD...large enough that DH and I were pretty shocked, but she knew what her goals were and which school was going to get her there. Her thesis film has won numerous awards, and is still doing well, the heavy hitters she has been able to meet and work with in just the 18 months since graduating is unreal~including having it shown at Mann's Chinese Theater in L.A with one of many film festivals. Cartoon Network contacter HER about her film so when I said for your DS to ask where these companies recruit from? There ya go. I will say, the Ringling reputation is very high, companies have a sort of built in respect for graduates from what I've seen. Employers know that graduates have what it takes, are prepared and want to be the best in their field. I know you mentioned dream companies your DS is after, as I said, expensive location, have him research lay-off trends~it sounds glamorous but as projects end, lay offs hit hard. However, this is where the Ringling training and tight alumni come into play, landing the next gig.
It's a huge decision for these kids at such a young age. Real life experiences are key for them to draw from (no pun intended) Ringling sees what these kids have when they submit their portfolios and essays...did your son attend any portfolios days? I'm guessing he was accepted into Illustration? My DD majored in CA but has used her character design and story-telling skills in her jobs.
Good luck to your son (and your family) this is exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time!