I too just read the update, and I am sooooo sorry for Carol and your family!! There is nothing that anyone can say right now to make you feel better, so the only advice I am going to give is to spend as much time with her as you can and say all you need to say. That is probably the only regret I have with my Mom. Losing her was one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with, and although her and I had many long talks towards the end, I always wish now I had said more. Have peace in knowing that she will be going to a better place, free from pain and YOU WILL get to meet up with her again in the here after. I firmly believe that, sometimes, it's the only thing that keeps me going. God bless you all.