Absolutely do not miss:
1. Osborne Family Spectacle of Dancing Lights at HS
2. Candlelight Processional at Epcot (we don't bother with the dinner, just hang out at the back)
3. The gingerbread house in the Grand Floridian lobby.
4. The lobby of the Wilderness Lodge
5. Wishes with the Christmas theme (if you're there right at Christmas)