I'm about to enter the diaper bag stage again and not looking forward to it! I am a simple girl and actually don't even like purses much. I'm looking to carry the bare minimum a couple diapers, change of clothes, wipes, etc. plus a wallet, cell phone, and keys. I plan on nursing but as the baby gets older I suppose it will need room for snacks and a sippy too. I'm thinking of loading up a backpack just to leave in the car but would like something much smaller for trips to the mall or grocery store. Anyone have suggestions? A cross body would be a bonus.