Not sure where you're located, but if there's a local Veterinary Technician school nearby I'd start there. I've been a vet tech for over 12 years now and I earned extra money through college by pet sitting in the person's home. With a tech student your dog more than likely is going to get top notch care. I loved it! I lived with my grandmother but was hardly there for all of the pet sitting I did. Basically I lived rent free and got paid to play with someone else's pet, and you can't go wrong with that!
If there's no local school call every vet office, starting with yours, and ask if there is someone over the age of 18 that does pet sitting. I'm sorry but I wouldn't trust complete control of my home and belongings to someone under that age. In my area the kids that work in our kennel do this for around $25 a night, plus the person also somewhat stocks the fridge for them. It's usually cheaper than what you'd pay a kennel. If you know anyone that knows of a reliable college student in your area ask if they'd be interested. A college student is often willing to do the job, and if they are a responsible person it could be a win win for everyone involved. Including your pet.
I can't see where a belly band if he's being watched in the home would be a problem. I'd prefer it over having to clean up urine on the floor that's for sure. Not anymore time consuming than scooping out a litter box and a lot more sanitary. The first kennel might have been scared away by the simple fact he's incontinent and they may have been untrained about this. You're better not to use them if they aren't comfortable with the idea. The kennel that said they hose down the runs, I'm almost positive they wouldn't do it with the dog inside of it. Aside from humane standards, it's illegal in most cities to do this. The person probably was not well versed in telling someone that by that they really meant the kennel was cleaned twice a day.
As for craigslist and the like please stay away from those sites. Someone could respond and look like Dr. Doolittle and have references out the wazoo and be a nut job. Don't take that chance.
I am really confident if you start calling vet offices you will soon find someone who is willing to hang out at your house and play and take care of your pet. I think my dogs probably get more attention when I'm out of town by our pet sitter than when we're home. Make sure you meet with them beforehand, agree on dates and times, and explain house rules. If you wish you can even have them sign something to the effect that if any intentional damage is done to your home or pet they are legally responsible. Although I am not sure how binding this would be in court, but the other person probably won't know that.
One last piece of advice and it's just from my experience. If you find someone let them know your vet's contact info. Set up ahead of time with your vet if you can an agreement that if your pet becomes illl or gets injured that it's ok for the pet sitter to bring them in and you'll take care of the charges once you return. I know it's something none of us pet owners want to think about, but things do happen. Even to young healthy dogs. Let your pet sitter know that you understand that, and that will help ease any stress they may have about caring for an elderly pet.
Sorry so long but I just felt so bad for your situation and hope I can help out. Hope you get to your trip and have a great time and return to find you've discovered a great pet sitter for future use!
