OT - Sorry need a minute - Just got lay-off notice!

[JandJ]

Sorry this is so totally OT. Just need a minute to gather my thoughts. I knew it was coming but that doesn't make it any easier. I just got my lay-off. The company was "acquired" and I work for the CEO. New company = new CEO. 2 weeks and I'm unemployed. WAH!! And I LOVED this job. It's downtown and 15 minutes from home and the pay is excellent DH is being SO supportive, he's just great. If it weren't for him I wouldn't have made it through the last couple of years - daddy's cancer diagnosis; mom's passing; and now this.

Sorry, I shouldn't vent to y'all about this, just needed to sort of get it all "out" y'know.

 

[littleladykaty]

oh gosh, I am so sorry!!! That is so difficult...and frustrating b/c there is just nothing to be done about it...at least if you get fired you can see where you went wrong, but lay offs are sort of without closure...nothing wrong with you but you are part of the old and it's an in with the new sort of company!

that really stinks...I would say that "everything happens for a reason", but I just HATE it when people say that to me!!! So I will say...People are JERKS!

Here is a "find a better, more FUN job SOON" spell!!!

 

[Tinkerbelle14]

First, I'm so sorry. Just b/c you knew it was coming doesn't mean you weren't still hoping for different news, I completely understand how you feel.
Second, of course you should vent to us! We may all have different backgrounds, but we can all give you different advice. Never feel like you shouldn't talk to us about something, it may actually help to get the opinions of people who don't actually "know" you.
Just be confident that in the end it will all work out and know that you DH is there to talk to (and us!)

 

[JonetteA]

I understand how you feel! In September, I was laid off. Right in the middle of planning and starting to save for my Fairytale wedding. I am where you are, all I can say is get your resume in shape and get it out there. Network with people even when you don't feel like it. Post on job boards. You can do this!! The quicker you take action the quicker things will happen.

Jonette

 

[KT27]

Sending lots of hugs & pixie dust! You will get through this. I have had good luck with monster.com & hotjobs.com Get that resume in tip top shape!!!

 

[ead79]

I’ve been there before, and it really does stink. I was laid off (with no warning) 2 months after my wedding. Lean on your husband and your friends and family (and us too of course). You’ll be fine, even though it’s rough right now.

 

[hfehr1s]

Oh my gosh -- that is awful!!! As others have said, it's not like you did something wrong -- it's just like a total change!!! Just remember that you found that job and you will find another one -- hopefully one that you will love even more!!! Good Luck and don't let this get you down!! This is just one of those things that is beyond your control and the only thing you can do is just move forward!!

 

[LouisianaDisneyFan]

With most larger companies, they provide a good severance package. I hope this was the case for you. My brother and his wife both worked for a division of Dow Chemical that was closed, and they were both laid off at the same time. At first, they looked at it as a catastrophe, but it ended up being a wonderful windfall for them. They both found jobs almost immediately, at the same salaries they had before, and then they used their severance to purchase a home. It turned out great! My wish is the same for you... that this black time will pass and that the silver lining will prove infinitely more beautiful. Good luck! ~Ev

 

[ckret01]

I am so sorry. I totally know how you feel. I worked for a large Telecommunications company that went bankrupt (was all over the news a few years ago.) They kept saying they were layoffs but not for everyone. No one from the higher ups ever said a word but the rumors were circulating like crazy. Sure enough after year of this my dept finally got the news. We were told 3 months in advanced which was good in a way b/c it gave me time to start job hunting but on the other sense it was bad b/c I still had to go to work and be productive. It killed me that I had to do this for 3 months knowing these people were laying me off.

I went thru so many emotions....I was so upset for losing my job (I loved my job, the people, everything.....even met my boyfriend there which now is my fiance ) Then I went thru being so angry at this company for this to happen and the thought that I would never find another job like it. Given I have been thru 3 jobs since I was laid off I still haven't found a "home" if you know what I mean. My problem is I compare every job to the one I had which isn't good but nothing compares unfortuntely.

You eventually move on but it wasn't always easy. and it used to kill me at the time that everyone would say "oh you'll find another job".....I know they were being nice and supportive but when you are going thru this it's tough.

Good luck to you!

 

[DisneyDiva74]

Oh, you poor thing. I'm so sorry to hear that, but I'm sure that you will find a new and even BETTER job really soon. Good luck with it all and hang in there!

Amanda

 

[Fantasia Sam]

Oh Jen I am so sorry to read this. I do hope that something good comes your way soon and you just vent all you need sweetie, we're all here for you.

Lots of pixie dust coming your way over the pond and ofcourse your DH is supportive, that's why you married him

Keep us posted on things OK, when you can.

 

[lindakmonty]

I'm so sorry to hear of your situation. As said already, maybe this is a blessing in disguise. Thankfully you have the love and support of a wonderful husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We're here for ya!

 

[JandJ]

Thank you for your support. You are all so sweet! I really appreciate all of your kind words and encouragement. I was pretty stunned. I thought it would happen in the fall or closer to the end of the year, no one saw this coming so soon. But, I am trying to see it as a positive. And yes, my husband is incredibly supportive. He is my personal cheerleader. Thankfully this all happened after our wedding, unlike some of you have said. How terrible to worry about a lay-off and a wedding!

Thanks for your caring words, it means a lot!

 

[popeyeohoh]

That it too bad. I am sure that another job is just waiting around the corner for you. Enjoy the time off. Do something for yourself. Is your resume updated? Do your friends know you are looking? Good Luck.

 

[ohanafamily]

JandJ, lots of PD to you.

One thing I want to add; this is where your friends are (all-be-it axe murdering internet friends) We are here to support you.

Personally, my DW was laid off a month before I proposed. At least she was able to plan our wedding unfettered by work...

 

[WDWbride2007]

I am so sorry to hear about your job. Luckily, you have a fantastic DH to help you through the tough times. I will send you lots of pixie dust!

 

[Cinderella Fan]

Please know that we are sending Pixie Dust and prayers your way. Hope things turn out well in the end!!

Just remember, faith, trust, and pixie dust!!

Hugs to you!!!

 

[DisneyBrideWannabe]

Wow, what bad news! My DF just lost hios job, so I;m tryingt o get his butt a new job before we have to cut into the wedding savings. I wish you the best of luck in your search. Does your old CEO have a new job? Maybe he/she can get you in? Or at least give you on hell of a recommendation!

 

[hiwaygal]

Oh Jen...I'm so sorry to hear this!!!

I do understand how "scary" this experience can be!

The last time this happened to me...well, I had just bought my house (hadn't even made my first payment yet) and I was terrified!!! But, I got another job in about 30 days and it was one of the best jobs I've had...

The cool part for me was this all happened at the end of May...so I had the month of June to just relax and go to the beach!

Anyway...I know you'll find something else and I hope it will make you just as happy!!!

Have you considered talking with your current boss to see where he/she is heading? They may be interested in taking you with them!

If there is ANYTHING we can do to help you, please let us know!

 

[princessblueeyzes]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Hang in there- we are all here for you and pulling for you. Here is some pixie dust and hugs for you.