Daughter and I just went the week before Christmas. We live in VA, so It's a good 6.5 hour drive. I've always had good luck with Priceline. If you don't mind what hotel you stay in, and Pick the lowest star rating you are comfortable with, then usually you can save a good amount of money.
Anyway, this time we ended up with the Courtyard by Marriot Jersey City that has been mentioned here for $85 a night. The hotel charges $16 a day to park a car, but it's unlimited access. The area is really safe! It's almost in walking distance to the CakeBoss store in Hoboken. (we didn't walk, we just placed an order online and picked it up at the store( Lobster tails and cannolli's)
Like stated before the Courtyard is right beside the Path train station. $2 each way to 34th street area.
Things that we have done are Free ferry ride to Stanton Island to "see" the Statue of Liberty. It gets you close enough that I really didn't feel like I missed out.
Top of the Rock to me is better, and faster than waiting for Empire long lines. Even the elevator ride to Top of the Rock is cool!
China Town, Little Italy. (we get our feet massaged in Chinatown and she gets her nails done. Little Italy had Ferraris sp? bakery that is as good or better IMHO than CakeBoss. My daughter watched the CakeBoss show, so we've been inside Carlos'.
She's only 8 and in the passed we have ridden the ferris wheel in Toys R Us.
We usually eat at the pizza shops and junk. Johns pizza near Times Square and the LaGuarida or something near the Brooklyn Bridge.
We walked (or at the time, she was still in the stroller) across the Brooklyn Bridge. Very nice skyline view of Manhatten...plus it was free
This last time we got tickets for the 9/11 Memorial..It was fine because we didn't have to wait for tickets and the line wasn't long. (we did have to wait about 30 minutes from when we got tickets to our actually time to stand in line)
We've done central park, but only on the outside. We haven't really walked much into the park.
We did the Museum of Natural History only to see the planitarium. I wouldn't suggest that. (wasted $40 bucks)
We spend alot of time at American Girl store, but I don't think that will be a store you'd visit.
Even though we've been around 6 times, we seem to always do alot of the same stuff, with a little new mixed in.
Saw Mary Poppins (tickets from Broadway box....good seats for $65
Wicked this last trip......$115 a ticket for not so great seats. Not bad, but not great. We got spoiled from Mary poppins, but it's not a hot show like wicked. My dd loved Wicked, I like MP, probably because of the price...lol
So I'm not sure where you are comming from. Driving or flying?.....
my suggestion would be If you are really concerned about where you stay, there's two hotels that I think you would be really ok with. The Courtyard in Jersey City (check there rates, but the week before christmas $170 a night, we did priceline for $85) plus parking.
Sheration in Weehobken (sp?, it's near Jersey City, Seacaucus) they charge $20 to park, but they have the water ferry right at the hotel. The area is safe, but nothing to do or eat nearby that was of mentioned. In Jersey City there's the mall right across the street, nice little breakfest cafe's......My vote is for Jersey City.....
Get a good map.
Good walking shoes. That's the thing. In New York you Walk! So If everybody is in pretty good health/shape it's no big deal. If nobody is used to walking alot, it becomes an issue.
I'd probably try to hang with your neice and let mom and dad do there thing.
Your dad is tripping on how unsafe NY is. I see more single women alone on the subway/trains etc than any other city I go to. Nobody really bothers anybody. Nobody really gives eye contact, don't speak etc. It's just a different way of life, but whenever we've had any questions, people have been the most helpful.
I get turned around alot in NY. I'll think I'm heading in the right direction, walk a block and realize the numbers are going opposite of what I thougth.
I know this is long, but I thought I'd share what has worked good for us.
Another thing is Money. Everything cost, so like any vacation, the more your bring the more your can spend...lol
We did 3 nights and I think for gas/food/tolls/show/room/parking/junk food etc. For an 8 yo and 41 yo...($350is room/park. $240show gas/tolls $130 plus I had $400 cash when I left and only around $20 when I got back, $70 at CakeBoss......It was easlily $1100-1300 for 3 nights.....But it was fun and had some good memories..
I've been before with another family and although I had fun, it had some times of being miserable!
It's easier to please a couple people than awhole group.
So, If your dad is just going because he wants to protect his girls, he might want to sit this one out and let the girls be girls in NY! (just get his checkbook....lol.....
have fun.....
Nice review!! I have been keeping my eye on the courtyard in jersey city, but their prices are $359 a night. I can't justify spending that much!