Indeed we do...
But...
Men are genuinely allowed to agree with their DF's. Most girl's you disagree with their wedding dream and you're on the sofa for the evening
As for equal rights, as a Quaker, I know a thing or two about trying to treat all people equally
As for catholic vs. not, I almost had that very debate once upon a time.
Go with whatever you and Robert feel happiest with. At the end of it all, a wedding is a celebration of your love for each other, so you should have the wedding that the two of you want, not what family want.