Aristomommy
<font color=deeppink>We were in the “wild animals”
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- Aug 11, 2001
This is an excellent post.I completely agree with you. Part of kindergarten is learning social skills. I was a younger kid in K. End of Oct. birthday here. I can tell you with absolute certainty that my social skills would not have been any different if my parents held me back a year. I was a shy kid. I stopped being shy around 8th grade. Holding me back was not going to change that. Unless of course I started kindergarten at 13.
I do think each parent has to make the decision that is best for the child but I do have to agree that holding a kid back because "he's small" is a little over the top for me. JMHO of course.
ETA- I also don't want my children in a class of 6 year olds when they are 5. They are in that class because they're 5.
I agree with your post as well. In DDs class, she has always been the youngest by 6 months or more (she was an early entrance to Kindergarten). I never imagined that she would have several boys that were 2 years older than she is!!! DD turned 9 in Nov. and one boy celebrated his 11th birthday last month. Others will turn 11 between now and May. All the boys are in the gifted programs with DD, so it can't be an academic thing.
What I don't understand is that when some children are held back a year, how teachers then point out the immaturity of the younger classmates. Some behaviors are age specific and others are not. DD has always been disorganized, her desk is a mess and papers may be wrinkled. Unfortunately I would like this to improve with age, but so fas it hasn't. But some teachers like to point this out and call it an age thing, since she is doing more than fine academically. Maybe teachers expectations change as more and more kids are held back and that becomes the new norm.
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