I too worked as a vet assistant for several years, 2 1/2 years at a cat only clinic which I only left because the weekend hours were not condusive to being a new mom
I own 1 declawed cat (12 years old) and 1 not declawed (2 years). I am now seriously considering having the younger one declawed. He was fine at first but he is beginning to destroy everything, berber carpet, matresses, chairs etc.
I am not a huge fan of the softpaws because many cats don't like the way they feel and will chew them off. Some do leave them alone though.
If you choose to declaw, your vet will give you a weeks worth of antibiotics most likely with pain medication crushed and put into the antibiotics. They will also suggest that you use a special kind of kitty litter until your cat's paws have healed. Most pet stores sell a brand called Yesterday's News which is made from pulverized pieces of recycled newspaper. There is another very soft brand that the all cat clinic sold called Cushy Litter.
It is a personal decision and if you choose to declaw, don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. You know what's best for your household. My cats, (I had another one that was declawed but he died 5 years ago

) have never had any complications from declawing. We also never allow our cats outside declawed or not due to the dangers, dogs, cars, Feline Leukemia, FIV, FIP, the list goes on and on.
They have it made though and are dearly loved members of our family
