I am in nursing school - I will be eligible to sit for the LPN boards in August and will be eligible for the RN boards next May. I am 32 (33 August 12!), married to a DH who works from dawn til dusk, and have three kids (12, 7, and 3). It has been VERY VERY difficult to juggle everything. Softball. Soccer. Girl scouts. Church (Sundays and Wednesdays). Special church activities (all at different days/times for my kids who are in three different stages (preK, elementary, and middle school). Band performances and practices. Family stuff (dinner at the ILs every Sunday, etc.) Just cooking dinner is a challenge at times
I often am irritable and feel guilty for not having more time for my kids. My DH complains that he never sees me. My house is usually cluttered and messy (but as long as it's not DIRTY, I am mostly ok with that for now! though every once in a while, I can't stand it and completely FREAK OUT!

). I don't sleep much at all.
Sometimes I get so frustrated, I just cry. I sometimes feel like quitting (though I know I never really would!). I sometimes wonder "What the heck am I doing? Is all of this even worth it??"
The answer is
YES YES YES!!!
This has not only been the most difficult thing, it is one of the most rewarding and is very self-affirming. I have made straight A's throughout (til last minimester when I got a B and cried - but then I realized I needed to stop obsessing about grades because it was making things more stressful for me than it needed to be!), and I am so proud of my accomplishments. My kids see how difficult it is to go back to school when you've got an established family (thus, hopefully, encouraging them to do it right away!) but at the same time, they see it can be done and is worth it! I am having a great time and love learning. I love clinicals - it is so amazing to help people and to see the gratefulness in their eyes when you do the simplest things to show you care for them. It feels so good to be using my brain again after being a SAHM for so many years
There is a huge mix of students in my class, ranging from new high school grads to people in their 50s and 60s. My age (32) is about the average.
For support and a plethora of information, check out allnurses.com It is a great community for nurses and students. There are forums for EVERY specialty imaginable, forums for nurses in every state and COUNTRY, forums just for students and pre-nursing students, forums for distance learning students, forums for male nurses/students, etc. I highly recommend it!
Best of luck to you (to ALL of you!!).
