Opinions wanted

[luvwinnie]

Guy runs into a woman he had a crush on in HS (actually dated for ONE day, lol, but then she dumped him) and they meet 20 yrs later with their spouses...he finds out they work near each other...he emails her TWICE about lunch and she says she's busy, will email him when she can make it...and then he CALLS...would you be suspicious of intentions?FYI: 20 years ago he was the sweetest, most gentlemanly type of guy.

UPDATE on pg 3

 

[FSUGrad97]

Personally, I would think he either has bad intentions or isn't good at taking a hint.

Unless the two were close friends, I would think it was a little odd that after 20 years he wants to go to lunch. Especially since it sounds as if they did not keep in touch over the years.

 

[budbeerlady]

I would think he is over doing it abit if his intentions are legit. Did woman give guy email address or did he search it out? I think this woman would be too busy for lunch!

 

[doombuggy3]

Personally, I would think he either has bad intentions or isn't good at taking a hint.

Unless the two were close friends, I would think it was a little odd that after 20 years he wants to go to lunch. Especially since it sounds as if they did not keep in touch over the years.

Took the words right out of my mouth, except I think he has naughty intentions. I would tell the woman to stay away from this man unless she is interested in him as well.

 

[luvwinnie]

During the "reunion" everyone was exhanging numbers/cards...just to keep in touch, you know? She (ok I!!) didn't really think about it like this at all at the time.
Thanks...listening to my gut on this one.

 

[1Prince2Princesses]

I'd definitely say he wants to rekindle your "relationship." Call him and invite him AND his wife to dinner with you and your husband. If he turns you down, you'll know he wants alone time. Then you can dump him again.

 

[rie'smom]

Run

 

[luvwinnie]

I'd definitely say he wants to rekindle your "relationship." Call him and invite him AND his wife to dinner with you and your husband. If he turns you down, you'll know he wants alone time. Then you can dump him again.

There is a "bunch" of us who will probably get together again soon...so trying not to make it awkward when that happens. I am so bad at just saying "Don't think that's a good idea"...and honestly, my husband wouldn't be thrilled as I wouldn't if I were him. UGH.

 

[Marc A.]

Coming from a guy..........
Head for the Hills!!!!

 

[laurajetter]

I'd definitely say he wants to rekindle your "relationship." Call him and invite him AND his wife to dinner with you and your husband. If he turns you down, you'll know he wants alone time. Then you can dump him again.

I like this idea. His intentions will be made clear and if they turn out to be purely innocent, then you might gain a friendship with a new family!

 

[horseshowmom]

Coming from a guy..........
Head for the Hills!!!!

I agree with Marc 100%. The guy is up to no good...

 

[mickeyboat]

I don't typically interpret everyone's intentions as bad, call me naive. I don't think he is up to anything sinister. I think the you have probably been on his mind since the reunion, and he just wants one chance to see what kind of person you became.

However, I think you should just wait for everyone to get together. Maybe get the ball rolling yourself!

Denae

 

[luvwinnie]

I don't typically interpret everyone's intentions as bad, call me naive. I don't think he is up to anything sinister. I think the you have probably been on his mind since the reunion, and he just wants one chance to see what kind of person you became.

However, I think you should just wait for everyone to get together. Maybe get the ball rolling yourself!

Denae

I should add we HAVE seen each other at a party since the first reunion gathering and he didn't talk with me all that much...that seemed odd to me. WHy email first thing Mon. morning?

 

[luvwinnie]

Run

 

[lillygator]

I should add we HAVE seen each other at a party since the first reunion gathering and he didn't talk with me all that much...that seemed odd to me. WHy email first thing Mon. morning?

hmm, that's odd...

 

[Beth76]

Doesn't really matter what his intentions are. Two emails and a phone call= too needy for my tastes.

 

[Marc A.]

Question...
At that party where you guys didnt talk.....was he with his wife? Or you with your husband???

 

[luvwinnie]

Question...
At that party where you guys didnt talk.....was he with his wife? Or you with your husband???

yes on both counts

 

[lg3]

I'd definitely say he wants to rekindle your "relationship." Call him and invite him AND his wife to dinner with you and your husband. If he turns you down, you'll know he wants alone time. Then you can dump him again.

IA with this too!

 

[FSUGrad97]

I should add we HAVE seen each other at a party since the first reunion gathering and he didn't talk with me all that much...that seemed odd to me. WHy email first thing Mon. morning?

I'm thinking he has bad intentions. Was your DH there?

What kind of vibe was he giving off?