Liz
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I'm so angry about this I thought maybe by posting it would help me calm down, and perhaps see the "other side" if ya'll disagree with me.
My DD is in 9th grade. First term in English she got an A on her report card. Right now she has an F. This term they have been placed in groups of 3 to do a majority of the assignments together. For about a week DD has tried to talk to the teacher to find out why her grade is so low and there have been substitutes. Since she had been unable to get this resolved I e-mailed the teacher and today went in during his prep period to find out what's happening.
In the groups of 3 he placed a top student, a mid-level student and a lower level student. My very, very shy DD is not the type of top student that will be able to help bring up the grades of these other two kids. They turn in one assignment and they all three get the grade.
It was a fairly long conversation which I won't go into all the details, but basically I told him I realize my very shy DD doesn't work well as a group but I have no idea how she is doing in English. He doesn't give papers back to the students at all (he keeps them). I asked to see her work and was denied. That's the major part that infuriates me. As a parent don't I have that right???? He told me its DD's responsibility to follow up on her work, not mine. He will get the work out if she comes in but not for me. I told him I did not really want to make another trip down to the school but I guess I'd have to.
This working in groups ends when report cards come out, thankfully. I know DD can get good grades when she works alone. I just hope she is able to pull out a passing grade this term.
My friend told me I should go to the principal. But I don't want it to turn into a big deal and have DD end up with a target on her back the rest of the year. Also my goal is to get a job in the office at the high school if any openings come up so I don't want to be labeled a troublemaker.
My DD is in 9th grade. First term in English she got an A on her report card. Right now she has an F. This term they have been placed in groups of 3 to do a majority of the assignments together. For about a week DD has tried to talk to the teacher to find out why her grade is so low and there have been substitutes. Since she had been unable to get this resolved I e-mailed the teacher and today went in during his prep period to find out what's happening.
In the groups of 3 he placed a top student, a mid-level student and a lower level student. My very, very shy DD is not the type of top student that will be able to help bring up the grades of these other two kids. They turn in one assignment and they all three get the grade.
It was a fairly long conversation which I won't go into all the details, but basically I told him I realize my very shy DD doesn't work well as a group but I have no idea how she is doing in English. He doesn't give papers back to the students at all (he keeps them). I asked to see her work and was denied. That's the major part that infuriates me. As a parent don't I have that right???? He told me its DD's responsibility to follow up on her work, not mine. He will get the work out if she comes in but not for me. I told him I did not really want to make another trip down to the school but I guess I'd have to.
This working in groups ends when report cards come out, thankfully. I know DD can get good grades when she works alone. I just hope she is able to pull out a passing grade this term.
My friend told me I should go to the principal. But I don't want it to turn into a big deal and have DD end up with a target on her back the rest of the year. Also my goal is to get a job in the office at the high school if any openings come up so I don't want to be labeled a troublemaker.
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