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[florida-again]

My 21st bday is in a few days and I'm going home to see my family.
My mum and step dad are going to take my sisters and I out for dinner to celebrate.
Me and BF have been together 3 years so my family know him pretty well.

Do you think it would be rude of me to ask my family if he could join us for dinner? (BF and I will celebrate together on my actual bday a few days later)

Don't flame me! I have no problem with having a nice meal with my family. It's just that it would obviously be nice to have him there.

 

[vacanut]

If they haven't invited I don't see any problems with you asking. You have been together for 3 years, he should feel comfortable with your family and should be a part of your life???

 

[vacationman]

Spend the dinner with just you and your family. In ten or twenty years you will not look back and wish for more time with your boyfriend, you will wish for more time with your family. Having a non-family member (which boyfriend will be until/unless you are married) changes the dynamic of the dinner.