We did Aladdin's Oasis package on Friday. We "reserved" it for 12:30, so you show up at your reservation time and they will ask if you want to eat it there or take it to go when you order your entrees. We ate there, and it was a nice, quiet respite from the very crowded park. I would definitely do that again. It wasn't table service, per se, but if you stayed there to eat - a CM brought it to your table and checked back in to see if you needed anything else. "table service light" I guess. Bonus: you are near the door Jasmine/Aladdin/Genie come and go through, so you're likely to see them walk by. Much faster than regular table service, and at a busy meal time - faster than waiting in a counter service line, too! I recommend it. You could still do table service dinner somewhere if you wanted, too.
Caveat: do NOT listen to them when they give you your Paint the Night tickets and tell you "They will NOT let you in more than 30min prior." For an 8:45pm parade, that was 8:15 for us. My daughter and I got there at 8:05 to get in line to enter our dining package spot - and you guessed it, everyone was already in, half full already. I expressed dismay, and the CM told me I misheard the Aladdin's Oasis CM. Um, nope. We still had fine seats, and the folks nearby said I was absolutely right, that they'd been told the same strict 30min bit. Guess they knew better than I did and showed up early anyway. Plenty of very surprised people came in right at 8:15, after me. Like I said, still had fine seats to watch, and everyone sits near the front so it's not an issue for kids to see either... but the CMs need to coordinate this package procedure better than they do.
Anyway, I would still do the package again, b/c frankly the lunch was about as stress-free as you can possibly get in
Disneyland, and you'll get a decent spot to watch the parade even if half the attendees are there before you.