I stayed off site a few times in college, and once when we were first married.
In the trips since we've had kids, we've only stayed on site, and it's the best decision for our family, hands down. Transportation is a breeze, you're close to everything, you're in the magic 24/7, and you have access to EMH (Extra Magic Hours when the park is open only to guests of Disney resorts), and to Disney's Dining plans.
As to recommendations, I've got to be honest and admit that having 3 kids limits our options a bit. Here's a list, in order of pretty much increasing cost. Take a look at the slide shows and fact sheets at
www.allears.net to narrow things down:
- Port Orleans Riverside has some rooms that accomodate 5. The 3rd child is in a Murphy Bed. It doesn't work for us because my only son is 3 inches taller than I am and wouldn't fit into the Murphy Bed. But for your kids, it's my number one choice. The resort is supposed to be fabulous, and it's cheaper than the Value options.
- Two (hopefully) connecting rooms at a value. The odds are very good (though not 100%) that your rooms would connect internally, since the kids outnumber the adults.
- A family suite at All Star Music (Value)
- A suite at the new Art of Animation (Value)
- A cabin at Fort Wilderness
- A room at a Deluxe. That's the route we go. We save for quite some time, then end up at a Deluxe. We love the amenities-- my kids are total water rats and we adore the pools and the locations. If you're considering this route, take a look at the Garden Wing rooms at the Contemporary. It's probably your cheapest option, and you can WALK to the Magic Kingdom. (More important, you can WALK a tired child back to the room instead of waiting for transportation at the end of a long day.) Also take a look at the Beach Club; you can walk to Epcot, and the pool is not to be believed!!!
Also, take a look at the meal plan (
DDP.) With 3 kids under the age of 10, it's a real bargain for your family. It gives you one table service, one counter service, and one snack (think bagel for breakfast) each day. Those table services include character meals, so your kids can have anyone from Mickey Mouse to Belle stop by for autographs and pictures without waiting on line. Take a look at the princess meals at Aukerhaus (in Norway, at Epcot), Dinner with Cinderella and Friends at 1900 Park Fare (on the monorail loop, easy to reach from the Magic Kingdom) and Chef Mickey's (in the Contemporary.)
Happy planning!!!