Magpie
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Yes, I helped him, but not how I was supposed to (with the bars). Like I said, I helped teach this last year, so I was no stranger to it, but I couldn't remember how the teaching manual said to do it. I found it much easier to think of it as M= S+40, B=S+15, S=S and then we went from there.
He did understand it my way, but I hope I didn't cause any problems showing him the way I did (and I didn't do it for him, he did all the calculations and tried to figure out what steps to take, though he did miss one and I had to help him). Like I said, he's a pretty bright boy, so if the teacher corrects his procedures, I think he'd catch on right away (that is if he's not being too stubborn to listen to her - that's another post)
I think you did great! You just took it a step higher, into something a little more abstract. And your son understood! So you actually challenged him appropriately, and gave him useful tools for later on.
And if your son hadn't understood, I'm sure you would have found a way to make it more concrete. There really isn't a wrong way to teach math, as long as the student understands.
I wasn't so good at explaining things to my own son, BTW. My teaching style is heavily verbal. My poor boy, however, not only has auditory comprehension issues, he also had a physical hearing problem back then. So I would say, "This is how you do this problem." And he would look at me and go, "huh?" And then I'd grab some paper or blocks and say, "Look, this is how you do this problem." And then the lightbulb would come on over his head and he'd get it, no problem! And then we'd move to the next subject and I'd say, "This is how you do it." And we'd have to go through the whole routine again.
I just could NOT help myself!I told myself the constant repetition had to be good for him, somehow.

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I'm more of an English and Literature type of person...


Good thing he's a math whiz! She even ends up teaching me sometimes.
She tries to get most of her homework done as soon as she gets home from school but my mom can't really help her with the math. She tries, God love her! Now, if she asked me about predicates and things like that I would right on top of that!
. Maybe we're the dumb cousins of homeschooling