kimblebee
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I don’t know much about dogs, and Google didn’t really answer my question, so I’m turning to the dis experts for opinions.
We have a shih tzu who will be 10 in December. He’s pretty chill for the most part, but still goes crazy when we open up the food container. He spends most of his time sleeping or just sitting on the couch looking outside.
He isn’t a normal dog in the fact that he doesn’t like to play, doesn’t like to run, doesn’t like toys. He’s basically a diva who needs a lot of attention.
I didn’t know him when he was a puppy but he got fixed when he was six months old and everything was normal, no complications.
In the past month or so, it seems like he’s going through a midlife crisis. He is starting to not listen and tries to have a mind of his own. If someone tells him to get on his mat (where he sits when we need him in one place to chill for a bit), it takes a few times before he wanders over. Then, after a few seconds he leaves. Before, he’d wait until he was told it was ok to move.
He listens to me the most because I’m the dominant one, but even I’m becoming ineffective.
The part that has me concerned is that he’s starting to become aggressive. He goes crazy when someone comes over who has a female dog. All the females are fixed, and aren’t puppies. He will sit by that person and stare at them and then try to...be intimate with their leg. If not that, he will try to get in their lap and starts rubbing on them and rolling all over on them.
Two nights ago, he was in my daughters room. Her boyfriend has a dog and she had recently spent time at his house. He also had spent time in her room and on her bed. Chewy got on her bed and was rubbing all over it and trying to climb all over her. She pushed him away and he started barking at her. He’s never done that before. She firmly told him no and pushed him off the bed. He growled a bit and barked again. She put him in the hallway and shut her door. He sat outside her door for a while and then came back downstairs.
I’ll start off by saying that getting rid of him isn’t an option. Not that anyone would suggest that, but even so, it’s a non starter.
I don’t think some sort of training would work because we tried it before and it just didn’t take. We did try a lot and did all the exercises at home. He just doesn’t absorb anything.
We can’t distract him with a toy because he doesn’t have any interest in them. We can’t run it out of him because he just doesn’t do that. He’s a walker and a sitter..just like me lol
He does go for walks every day. They aren’t hours long, but he does come home tired.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I don’t feel like we’re in danger or anything, but I want this behaviour to stop. I can’t have a dog that doesn’t listen..it’s too frustrating for me..a borderline dog person as it is.
Thanks for reading this far.
We have a shih tzu who will be 10 in December. He’s pretty chill for the most part, but still goes crazy when we open up the food container. He spends most of his time sleeping or just sitting on the couch looking outside.
He isn’t a normal dog in the fact that he doesn’t like to play, doesn’t like to run, doesn’t like toys. He’s basically a diva who needs a lot of attention.
I didn’t know him when he was a puppy but he got fixed when he was six months old and everything was normal, no complications.
In the past month or so, it seems like he’s going through a midlife crisis. He is starting to not listen and tries to have a mind of his own. If someone tells him to get on his mat (where he sits when we need him in one place to chill for a bit), it takes a few times before he wanders over. Then, after a few seconds he leaves. Before, he’d wait until he was told it was ok to move.
He listens to me the most because I’m the dominant one, but even I’m becoming ineffective.
The part that has me concerned is that he’s starting to become aggressive. He goes crazy when someone comes over who has a female dog. All the females are fixed, and aren’t puppies. He will sit by that person and stare at them and then try to...be intimate with their leg. If not that, he will try to get in their lap and starts rubbing on them and rolling all over on them.
Two nights ago, he was in my daughters room. Her boyfriend has a dog and she had recently spent time at his house. He also had spent time in her room and on her bed. Chewy got on her bed and was rubbing all over it and trying to climb all over her. She pushed him away and he started barking at her. He’s never done that before. She firmly told him no and pushed him off the bed. He growled a bit and barked again. She put him in the hallway and shut her door. He sat outside her door for a while and then came back downstairs.
I’ll start off by saying that getting rid of him isn’t an option. Not that anyone would suggest that, but even so, it’s a non starter.
I don’t think some sort of training would work because we tried it before and it just didn’t take. We did try a lot and did all the exercises at home. He just doesn’t absorb anything.
We can’t distract him with a toy because he doesn’t have any interest in them. We can’t run it out of him because he just doesn’t do that. He’s a walker and a sitter..just like me lol
He does go for walks every day. They aren’t hours long, but he does come home tired.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I don’t feel like we’re in danger or anything, but I want this behaviour to stop. I can’t have a dog that doesn’t listen..it’s too frustrating for me..a borderline dog person as it is.
Thanks for reading this far.
