To each his own. I've stayed at OKW several times and always rented a car because I didn't want to be stuck with the busses everywhere. At least at BW you can walk to Epcot and DHS or boat. I usually drive to AK, DTD.
I've never found BWV rooms noisy. I've been woken up early at OKW by lawnmowers on the golf course.
at OKW, we've been awakened by people going to the busstop, guests arriving "home" at 5AM and after midnight to the resort (parking is outside of units, so we were awakened by slamming car doors and trunks, loud "did you get the xx?!!!!" at all hours). also, strolls around the resort involved inhaling too much bus exhaust for me (note that we despite SSR having a similar set-up, we found it much more serene).
we've never been awakened by noise at the BWI or BWVs, and particularly like waking up to Spaceship Earth, sleeping to fireworks bursting over the Eiffle Tower, rather than views of cars.
there is a plethora of do/see options at the BW, as well as incredibly quiet choices (favorites are being able to have a grey goose slushie at EPCOT, watch a show on the BW or at DHS, dine out, play mini-golf - all spur of the moment and all within minutes). OKW really
is very pretty and the rooms are large, but we just don't feel giving up all the many active and inactive options BWI/BWV have to offer is worth the trade-off. (something to consider regarding "beauty": how many people day/night visit the BW, or GF, poly, etc, just to stroll around, dine, and enjoy the atmoshere?)
everyone is different however, but hopefully seeing the good and not-so-good of each resort will help you pick the one that best suits
you.
enjoy
