Just got back from OKW with a 2 1/2 year old. My suggestions:
1. Rent the car. We got a full size (Taurus) from Hertz using Hotwire for $160 total for 7 days. We drove everywhere but to MK.
2. If you rent the car, you can stop on your way in from the airport at a grocery store. I made the grocery list out while on the plane.
3. Our typical adjenda was: Get up early (not usually a problem for little kids) and go to EE, especially for MK; either eat a character lunch or got back to the room for lunch; nap (Mom too!); swim, go back to a park, or swim and go back to a park. Pick a few things you want to get done that day. Anything else you accomplish is just icing on the cake.
4. Do E Night. Yes, your kid won't be able to ride most of the rides--- but you will. If you are like us, you will spend your fast passes during the day on such rides as Pooh, Buzz Light Year, Jungle Cruise, etc. It was the only way my husband and I got to ride the "top 10" biggies. There was no wait, and on several rides you go to ride thru again because no one was waiting to get on. Got more done in 3 hours than we could have done in 3 days. And there were characters in the park to keep her busy.
5. Buy a few things ahead of time at the
Disney store on sale, etc., and have them for little surprise gifts for your son. Helps cut down on the "buy me This" syndrome while you are there (especially when some of the rides, including Pooh, exit into the gift shop).
6. Take a small penlight flashlight for your child to turn on in the dark rides (even Pooh has dark parts). Helps a child who is timid of the dark, and doens't bother the other guests. Take extra batteries for it too. Inadvertantly, it will get left on in the backpack (the voice of experience here...)
7. Read up on the height requirements, the "fright factors" on the rides so you know what you are getting into. Measure you child before you go so that there will be no disapointments when he gets to the front of the line and can't ride...
8. Don't push it. We were there for 7 days. We saw lots of things and had a great time, and never made it to AK. That's whats nice about
DVC, no commando trips. Figured we have many more times to see things...
Hope this helps. If you have any specific questions, you can email me.
Trudy