Ok, what will happen now? :O(

[a*lil*bit*goofy]

Honestly, if you show up with six and the host/hostess gives you a hard time, I think a, "My husband and I have recently separated, so he is not here," would leave them absolutely bending over backwards for you. If I were the hostess, I would feel terrible!

Thanks, this is good advice.

ETA: and i love the wedding pics in your siggy! gorgeous!

 

[a*lil*bit*goofy]

No advice, but

(My soon-to-be ex moved out 3 weeks ago)

I am sorry to hear that.
My husband left on May 31st.

 

[a*lil*bit*goofy]

I'm going through a divorce, and having my Disney trip to look forward to has definitely helped, because I can see that there will still be fun times in my life even without him!

It is such a hard thing to go through, to have your future and all your plans taken away. Everyone told me in the beginning that it would get easier with time. I couldn't see how that was even possible then, because everything was so ugly, but they were right! My dh and I have been separated since October, and I'm starting to see a new future for myself, that will be happy, even if it wasn't what I had planned on. I never imagined that I could be a single parent, but my daughter and I are doing great. My new mantra has become, "I may be divorced, but I refuse to be bitter!"

I wish you the best, and hope you enjoy your time at Disney. You deserve it!

That's a fantastic mantra. Thanks so much for the encouragement. In the end, the kids and I are better off. And we will and have been getting thru it. Just one day at a time, right.

 

[a*lil*bit*goofy]

I didn't see anyone else address this but I would keep it status quo except for those places you may have pre-paid like CRT or one of the dinner shows - Hoop-Dee-Doo Revue or the Spirit of Aloha. Other than that I don't see how it could be a problem.

It will get better. I am raising my DS16 alone and it is much better with just the two of us than the three because we would never have been able to vacation anywhere but Virginia Beach, where my ex-MIL lives, otherwise. My son is happier and probably better adjusted than if the situation had stayed the stay.
I am not bitter, just happy!

Well said. Thanks for the wishes, and yes I too know that its better in the long run, and that my kids will be better adjusted because of it. Thank you. :O) also for the reminder about Hoop Dee Doo revue! I would have forgotten!

 

[a*lil*bit*goofy]

I agree with the OP. Leave them be. It will just give you more elbow room! And hang in there!! My mother always says "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger" and you know, She is right.

you have a smart mom. Thanks so much for the wishes.

 

[disneyaggie]

First of all

Now, you go and have a wonderful time! Also, don't you fret one bit about the Disney crash after you get home. Heck, that's the best time to start planning your next trip. And remember, there's always the Dis Board to get you through!

Hugs again!

 

[shasess]

I hope you and your family have a wonderful vacation.