I do know how you feel. I had two days in a row which several really rude people at
VMK. I felt helpless as CL. I had tried to defuse an incident where inappropriate comments were being made. I've try different approaches, to defuse a bad situation, "Please watch what your are saying", "Your comments are not acceptable", "Manners, please", "Having a bad day?". The player proceeded to call me lame, geek, hit & kick. Then told me, she had reported me for harassment. Sounds familiar? I was so upset that I stopped trying to help for a while. I made a decission not to let anyone bully me into being afraid. Oh, by the way, if they reported me, VMK has never mentioned it. Be proactive. contact VMK.
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