I couldn't pick so I got my planner Amy to pick for me. She narrowed down to her top 3, but I pressed her further and she said based on what she knows about me and what I am looking for I'd be best off with Rev. Jack Day. She said he's fantastic, funny, and sweet. So that's who we went with. I have spoken to him over the phone, he seems very sweet, and his ceremony choices are great...it helped me to write my own custom ceremony that I am thrilled with!