we stayed there last year and LOVED it too- that's why I wanted to go back. But I had wanted the extra ambiance since it was for my in-laws anniversary- I knew from reading that the resort hotels do a lot for them but after crunching the numbers I figured that we could only afford a week at POFQ. BUT with SOG we can stay for 10 days and STILL have money left over. Also I noticed that it is one set price for the rooms based on rank and you can choose when you want to go whereas you have to pay more for peak season.
Thank you all for your input- I think I always knew that is where we were going to stay- but then I tried to justify spending money on everything else but at the end of the day I couldn't justify it. Then I started thinking that whatever POFQ could do for their anniversary we could end up taking them to a signature restaurant for the same thing and spend a lot less.
Thank you again for keeping me level headed!!!!