I am also a little nervous about the crowds...but, I keep thinking if we could do Disney in high crowds and HIGH heat and humidity in June...then we can do this and love it, too.
Thanks moms for the input/ideas on my son and Fantasmic. I booked the package, but I'm still waffling on whether or not we want to do this. I do think he would love the show. I know the line will be tough for him, though.
Also, I feel like crying because I'm hearing from other moms that GET IT on how heartbreaking, frustrating, tough, etc. it is having a kiddo with special needs. My son right now has the ADHD diagnosis...he's 9. I am not convinced there are more labels to come. He is very sensory and was a REALLY late talker. I am also intrigued by how early other kids get diagnosed these days. I wonder if my son had been seen early by someone else if he'd been diagnosed on the spectrum and with various language and processing disorders. He was in speech therapy from 18 months to 3 1/2 years old, made rare eye contact, was extremely sensory in areas of eating, dressing, environmental noise, he didn't point at things, had EXTREME meltdowns over what others would perceive as 'small' things, when he was 4,5,6 he would often use obscure words in place of the correct ones (example, "Mom, can you cook it in the elevator [instead of microwave]), I could go on and on...
He has progressed a LOT, but focus remains an issue, he is still pretty picky about his clothes (wants to live in either sweatpants or shorts..HATES the feel of khakis or jeans), VERY black and white thinker, struggles with reading, struggles with anxiety, etc., etc. Right now he wears a strong ADHD diagnosis with "very poor working memory" (a hallmark executive function problem of ADHD) Sometimes I wonder if we need more testing for processing issues as things crop up at school. He is extremely visual, but I wonder about possibility of APD. I have to say one of the most AMAZING things to me when he started meds for ADHD was on DAY ONE he suddenly could make eye contact with everyone and that has remained the same! He's been on ADHD meds for almost 2 years. I didn't realize for him that was a sign of his mind going a zillion miles per hour.